Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees

Pleasure Without Permission with Rosie Rees

Author: Our Secret Spot December 10, 2025 Duration: 42:02

Self-pleasure has quietly shifted from a whispered taboo to a full-blown cultural reclamation — and few people have championed that transformation more powerfully than Rosie Rees.

In this episode, Jess and Lawrence dive deep into the world of empowered intimacy, slow pleasure, mindful masturbation, and the quiet revolution happening in bedrooms everywhere. Rosie opens up about the origins of Yoni Pleasure Palace, how crystal and glass toys are reshaping internal pleasure, and why slowing down can unlock deeper, more connected, more embodied orgasms.

They explore the healing power of self-touch, why shame still lingers around solo pleasure, and how early “be quick, be quiet” conditioning shapes adult sexuality. Rosie also unpacks the creation of Splash Blanket, the booming global culture around squirting, and why having permission to “make a mess” can be the key to letting go.

From myth-busting and toy talk to navigating pleasure in relationships and reconnecting with your sensual body, this episode is equal parts grounding, expansive, and joyfully liberating.

If you’ve ever wanted to explore sensuality, pleasure, body confidence, or inner connection without shame — this is your invitation.

Rosie’s Links:
FREE 7-Day Self Pleasure Course: https://yoni-pleasure-palace.teachable.com/p/7-day-self-pleasure-training
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosie.rees
Yoni Pleasure Palace: https://yonipleasurepalace.com
Splash Blanket: https://splashblanket.com (use promo code: secretspot)
Women’s Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yonipalace

Sponsors:

“Flirt” https://flirtadultstore.com.au (use promo code: secret15) 

“Stigma Health” https://www.stigmahealth.com (use promo code: playsafe10)

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Ever wondered what honest conversations about love, desire, and connection sound like when the filters are off? Swapping Secrets pulls up a chair for those chats, hosted by Jess and Lawrence from the Our Secret Spot community. This isn't about theory; it's the real, sometimes messy, often hilarious, and always human experiences shared by people exploring the edges of intimacy and relationships. Each episode feels like a candid catch-up with friends who aren't afraid to get into the nitty-gritty, blending juicy personal stories with practical, consent-driven advice. You'll find the whole spectrum here, from those just dipping a toe in to folks fully immersed in alternative lifestyles, all met with the same open-minded curiosity. The podcast thrives on that specific laughter born from shared understanding and the relief of hearing your own thoughts echoed aloud. Tuning in means accessing a space where topics around sexuality, fitness for pleasure, and emotional health are discussed without judgement, but with plenty of warmth and sharp insight. It's for anyone looking to deepen their own connections, understand different perspectives, or simply feel a bit less alone in their curiosities. Swapping Secrets turns whispers into conversations, all from that trusted spot where secrets are swapped, not stolen.
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