Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child

Why Your Sex Life Isn’t Working (And How To Fix It) with Alice Child

Author: Our Secret Spot June 9, 2026 Duration: 1:02:34

In this episode of Swapping Secrets, Jess and Lawrence sit down with renowned sexologist and relationship counsellor Alice Child to answer one of the biggest questions facing modern couples:

Why does intimacy break down, even in loving relationships?

From mismatched libidos and emotional labour to communication challenges, parenting, stress, resentment and screen-time overload, Alice explains the most common reasons couples seek professional help and what actually works when it comes to rebuilding connection.

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Ever wondered what honest conversations about love, desire, and connection sound like when the filters are off? Swapping Secrets pulls up a chair for those chats, hosted by Jess and Lawrence from the Our Secret Spot community. This isn't about theory; it's the real, sometimes messy, often hilarious, and always human experiences shared by people exploring the edges of intimacy and relationships. Each episode feels like a candid catch-up with friends who aren't afraid to get into the nitty-gritty, blending juicy personal stories with practical, consent-driven advice. You'll find the whole spectrum here, from those just dipping a toe in to folks fully immersed in alternative lifestyles, all met with the same open-minded curiosity. The podcast thrives on that specific laughter born from shared understanding and the relief of hearing your own thoughts echoed aloud. Tuning in means accessing a space where topics around sexuality, fitness for pleasure, and emotional health are discussed without judgement, but with plenty of warmth and sharp insight. It's for anyone looking to deepen their own connections, understand different perspectives, or simply feel a bit less alone in their curiosities. Swapping Secrets turns whispers into conversations, all from that trusted spot where secrets are swapped, not stolen.
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