Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions

Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions

Author: Ed and Phoebe | Swinger University January 28, 2026 Duration: 31:33
Want to send us a message? Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed ejaculation. We explore the medical causes (medications, injuries, conditions), the psychological factors (anxiety, performance pressure, relationship dynamics), the real impact on partnerships, and most importantly, what ac...

Ed and Phoebe have spent over twelve years exploring the swinger lifestyle, gathering a wealth of practical knowledge they wish they’d had from the beginning. Their Swinger University™-The Swinger Podcast for Education, Lifestyle & Travel is built from those experiences, serving as a candid resource that moves beyond theory into the realities of non-monogamous living. Each episode feels like a conversation with trusted friends who aren’t afraid to discuss the triumphs, the misunderstandings, and the questions that often go unasked. You’ll hear detailed reflections on initiating those first delicate conversations with a partner, alongside practical guides for social settings like clubs, dedicated resorts, and lifestyle cruises. The dialogue consistently returns to foundational pillars like maintaining clear boundaries, managing jealousy with honesty, and prioritizing sexual health-all delivered with a sense of humor that comes from having been there. With a library of more than 165 episodes, this podcast provides a comprehensive education for anyone curious, newly involved, or long-engaged in the community. It’s less about sensationalism and more about building a sustainable, joyful approach to alternative relationships and travel. Tune in for authentic stories and straightforward advice that aims to replace uncertainty with confidence and connection.
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