In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on something that is already inside your world whether you're ready for it or not — artificial intelligence and sex. I'm breaking down four categories of AI-powered intimacy technology: smart sex toys and biofeedback devices, AI companion apps and chatbots, virtual reality experiences, and AI in sexual health and therapy. I talk about what these tools actually do, why they matter specifically for people navigating desire and relationships after 50, and the questions we're not asking loudly enough — about data privacy, about who this technology was built for, and about what happens to our capacity for real human connection when frictionless digital intimacy becomes the easier option. This is not a scare episode. This is a get-informed episode. Because you deserve to be an empowered participant in the world you're already living in.
In this episode:
00:00 — Introduction: AI Is Already in Your Bedroom
01:15 — The Four Categories of AI Intimacy Tech
02:30 — Smart Sex Toys and Biofeedback Devices
04:10 — Lioness, FirmTech, WeVibe and What They Actually Do
05:30 — Haptics and Teledildonics: Physical Intimacy Across Distance
06:45 — AI Companion Apps: Loneliness, Grief, and the Limits of Digital Connection
08:30 — Virtual Reality and Intimacy: VR Therapy, Body Shame, and Immersive Content
10:15 — The Three Questions We're Not Asking About AI and Sex
12:00 — Is Technology a Bridge or a Destination?
13:15 — Closing: How to Be an Empowered Participant
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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com
Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.
AI Sex Toys & Devices mentioned in this episode:
- Lioness — biofeedback vibrator that tracks arousal, muscle contractions, and movement patterns via app
- FirmTech — tech ring for men that measures nighttime erections to assess penile health🍆 Save 15% off MaxPR using code TABOO15 🛒 Link: https://myfirmtech.com/karenbigman
- WeVibe — app-connected couples devices with remote control and AI features https://wevibe-north-america.sjv.io/B5EzLy
- Tracy's Dog — app-connected devices; also developing adaptive AI avatar technology
- Kirroo — sync devices for partners that mirror movements in real time over the internet Save 10% off Kirroo products with code: KAREN10 at http://offers.feeliate.com/taboo
