Dating after divorce can feel intimidating, overwhelming, and even hopeless — but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I sit down with Andrea McGinty, America’s top midlife dating expert and author of Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50. From founding It’s Just Lunch Matchmaking to facilitating over 33,000 dates and 10,000 marriages, Andrea has seen it all. She shares no-nonsense strategies for navigating the modern dating world, choosing the right apps, spotting red flags, and building a game plan for your love life. Whether you’re newly single or simply curious about what’s possible, this episode proves it’s never too late for a second act in love.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & Show Intro
00:35 – Today’s Topic & Guest Setup “Is online dating after divorce a nightmare…?"
02:35 – Why Dating After Divorce Feels Harder
04:45 – The Ocean, Not a Pool: Why Apps Matter
08:05 – Right App for Your City & Stage of Life
09:30 – Biggest Mistake: Quitting After Two Weeks
11:40 – Build a Dating “Business Plan”
13:45 – Values, Communication & Chemistry (The 3 C’s)
16:00 – First Relationship Post-Divorce: Are You Ready?
18:20 – Red Flags on Profiles
20:40 – Stop Texting Forever: Set the Date
23:00 – The Sex-on-First-Date Question
24:50 – Matchmakers vs Apps (Costs & Reality)
28:50 – Paid vs Free App Features
31:30 – Hope, Resilience & Process
35:10 – Phone Call or Not? Expectations & Boundaries
38:00 – First-Date Formats
39:30 – Who Pays? Regional Norms & Chivalry
40:20 – Where to Find Andrea + Outro
Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today’s discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don’t miss out!
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
About the Guest:
As seen on Oprah, WSJ, People, and CNN, Andrea McGinty is a professional dating coach, author, and entrepreneur with more than 25 years of experience. Having set up over 33,000 successful dates, she is the founder of two dating companies--It's Just Lunch and 33k Dates--as well as several other ventures, including BabyDagny and Pilatesworks.
Connect with Andrea McGinty:
Website: https://www.33000dates.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/33000dates
Book: https://www.33000dates.com/book
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com
Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.
Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.
