Cheating isn’t the biggest relationship killer—money is. I reveal the hidden financial red flags that can quietly destroy trust and security, and how to protect yourself before it’s too late.
I share my own experience of ignoring the warning signs and what it cost me, plus the subtle clues you might be missing: lavish spending on a modest income, secretive money habits, repeated requests for “loans,” inconsistent stories about debt, and more.
You’ll learn:
- How to spot financial instability early
- Why joint expenses should never mean giving up control
- How to protect yourself with solid planning and prenups
- Why honest money talks are as vital as conversations about intimacy
Whether you’re dating, remarried, or in a long-term relationship—especially in midlife—this conversation will help you protect both your heart and your wallet.
Because healthy money habits aren’t just smart… They're sexy.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Why financial red flags matter more than you think
00:25 – Money & sex: the two hardest conversations
00:55 – My personal story of ignoring the signs
01:35 – Lavish spending vs. real income
02:05 – Secretive behavior & repeated requests for money
02:40 – Why you should talk about credit scores
03:05 – Inconsistent debt stories & hidden bankruptcies
03:35 – The danger of “my money, your money” control
04:00 – Protect yourself with planning & prenups
04:40 – The importance of professional financial advice
05:05 – “Open books, open hearts”: building transparency
05:40 – Keep money talks going for a healthier relationship
06:10 – Final takeaway: healthy money habits are sexy
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
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Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.
