Sex Magic, Anal Play, and Orgasmic Power with Venus O'Hara | Ep. 152 (Part 2)

Sex Magic, Anal Play, and Orgasmic Power with Venus O'Hara | Ep. 152 (Part 2)

Author: Karen Bigman February 17, 2026 Duration: 17:52

In part two of my conversation with Venus O’Hara, we go beyond toys and into power. Venus shares the beginner anal toy she designed for absolute first-timers and the triple-motor toy created for layered external pleasure without pressure to penetrate. We talk about new tech in sex toys, from thrusting and tapping to air stimulation, and what actually feels different versus what is hype.

Then we shift into something deeper. Venus explains orgasmic manifestation and how she used sexual energy to transform her life. We unpack sex magic, intention setting, affirmations during arousal, and why sexuality is powerful rather than shameful. We close with my signature questions, including her definition of sex, her most impactful orgasm, and the fantasy she still wants to experience.

This episode is about agency, curiosity, and using your pleasure as power.

Timestamps:

0:00 Why we had to go deeper

1:05 Beginner anal design and safety basics

3:15 The triple-motor toy and layered stimulation

5:40 New tech beyond vibration

7:30 AI and the future of sex tech

9:05 The three levels of sexuality

11:20 Discovering sex transmutation

13:30 How orgasmic manifestation works

16:00 Intention setting and affirmations during arousal

18:20 Definition of sex and sacred energy exchange

19:45 Her most impactful orgasm

21:00 Fantasy still to be explored

22:10 Where to find Venus and final thoughts

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.


This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.


Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast



About Venus O'Hara:

Raising orgasmic awareness. Author. British expat in Spain. Sex toy tester & designer. Brand Ambassador for Satisfyer. YouTuber. Fetishist. Feminist. Vegan. Yogini. Zen. Creator of The Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast.

Connect with Venus O’Hara:

Website: https://www.venusohara.org/about-venus-ohara

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/venusohara/

Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F53LZ6BY


Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com

Take control of your pleasure with my Pleasure Playbook, filled with tips to help you connect with your body and enhance intimacy. Download it now at www.taboototruth.com/pleasureplaybook.

LINKS, EXCLUSIVE VIP DISCOUNTS, COURSES & FREEBIES

🌟DUOGLOW Thrusting Beaded Vibrator with Pulsating Stimulator

🛒 Link: https://www.svakom.com/products/duoglow?srsltid=AfmBOopyPTlJoXEXEId3ooRUp6ygnH7ZtSIxpFgCLIPhPwc42oIxsBD4

🔴 🔴 🔴 SATISFYER Tri Ball 1

🛒 Link: https://us.satisfyer.com/us/satisfyer-tri-ball-1

🚨 Save 35% off at svakom.com using code Venus35

🛒 Link: http://svakom.com

🚨 Save 25% off on the Lem using code Taboo25

🛒 Link: Hellonancy.com/discount/TABOO25

🚨 Save 25% on Le Wand using code Taboo25

🛒 Link: https://www.lewandmassager.com

💋 Hotter, Wilder, Wiser | You’ve mastered everything else in life — now master pleasure! https://www.taboototruth.com/hotter-wilder-wiser


In a culture that often whispers about aging and ignores the sexuality of older adults, Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 speaks in a clear, confident voice. Hosted by certified sex educator and coach Karen Bigman, this podcast transforms hushed conversations into open, honest dialogue. Karen’s straightforward and candid approach dismantles the stigma surrounding midlife intimacy, creating a vital space for education and support. Each episode explores the intricate, real-life experiences of dating, relationships, and physical connection after fifty. You’ll hear practical insights on navigating sex post-divorce, the triumphs of rediscovering desire, and the unique challenges that come with these transformative years. This isn’t abstract theory; it’s grounded conversation about the evolving landscape of pleasure, health, and partnership. By diving deep into topics often left unspoken, the show provides both reassurance and actionable guidance. Whether you’re seeking to understand your own journey or to simply listen and learn, this podcast meets you with expertise and empathy. Karen Bigman ensures every discussion moves from societal silence toward personal truth, making Taboo to Truth an essential listen for anyone redefining what life and intimacy mean in the second half.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50
Podcast Episodes
5 Secrets to Mind-Blowing Sex (That Actually Work) | Ep. 126 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:02
Good sex doesn’t happen by accident—it takes curiosity, communication, and intention. In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I’m breaking down five simple but powerful ways to go from “meh” to mind-blowing in the bedroom. Fr…
He’s So Into You—Or Is It Love Bombing? | Ep. 123 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:33
Is it real love or manipulation in disguise? In this episode of Taboo to Truth, I unpack the difference between genuine affection and love bombing, how to spot the red flags early, what behaviors cross the line from cari…
Open Relationships: Can They Save or Ruin Your Marriage? | Ep. 122 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:17
Open relationships sound exciting to some — and absolutely terrifying to others. But what really happens when you open up your marriage? Can it save your relationship… or destroy it?In this episode, I sit down with Kelvi…
Top 3 Female Fantasies—And What They Really Mean | Ep. 120 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 4:53
In this episode I’m pulling back the covers—literally—on the top three sexual fantasies most women have but rarely confess. From the thrill of novelty and adventure, to the ego-boosting allure of multi-partner desire, an…