The Truth About Orgasms, Vibrators & Vaginas – with Dr. Laurie Mintz | Ep. 98 Part 2

The Truth About Orgasms, Vibrators & Vaginas – with Dr. Laurie Mintz | Ep. 98 Part 2

Author: Karen Bigman June 17, 2025 Duration: 21:05

In Part 2 of my conversation with Dr. Laurie Mintz (Becoming Cliterate), we unpack some of the biggest myths around women's intimacy, including the idea that satisfaction should come from one kind of experience alone.

Timestamps:

0:00 – Missed Part 1? Go Back!

0:45 – Why Vibrators Are Game-Changers

2:30 – Debunking the Biggest Myths About Toys

4:30 – How Vibration Supports Pleasure and Healing

6:15 – Do Vibrators Replace Partners? Let’s Be Real.

8:00 – Rethinking ‘Foreplay’: The Four Plays That Work

10:16 - Announcing My New Masterclass - Hotter, Wiser, Wilder!

10:30 – Sexual Guilt & The Orgasm Gap

12:10 – Attachment, Casual Sex & Cultural Myths

14:00 – BDSM, Boudoir & Owning Your Curiosity

16:00 – What Is Sex? Dr. Laurie’s Definition

17:40 – Advice for Women Struggling With Orgasm

19:20 – Final Thoughts + Join Dr. Laurie’s Live Coaching

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.


This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.


Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast



About the Guest:

‪@drlauriemintz‬ is an Emeritus Professor at the University of Florida teaching Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 60 scholarly works and authored two popular press books: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex. Mintz is a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist in private practice. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. In 2023, she was named one of Forbes “50 over 50” women innovators.

Connect with Dr. Laurie Mintz:

Links: https://linktr.ee/DrLaurieMintz

Book: ‘Becoming Clitorate’ https://www.drlauriemintz.com/becomin...

Instagram: / drlauriemintz

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

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Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

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Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: / taboototruth

YouTube: / @taboototruthpodcast

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In a culture that often whispers about aging and ignores the sexuality of older adults, Taboo to Truth: Life & Sex After 50 speaks in a clear, confident voice. Hosted by certified sex educator and coach Karen Bigman, this podcast transforms hushed conversations into open, honest dialogue. Karen’s straightforward and candid approach dismantles the stigma surrounding midlife intimacy, creating a vital space for education and support. Each episode explores the intricate, real-life experiences of dating, relationships, and physical connection after fifty. You’ll hear practical insights on navigating sex post-divorce, the triumphs of rediscovering desire, and the unique challenges that come with these transformative years. This isn’t abstract theory; it’s grounded conversation about the evolving landscape of pleasure, health, and partnership. By diving deep into topics often left unspoken, the show provides both reassurance and actionable guidance. Whether you’re seeking to understand your own journey or to simply listen and learn, this podcast meets you with expertise and empathy. Karen Bigman ensures every discussion moves from societal silence toward personal truth, making Taboo to Truth an essential listen for anyone redefining what life and intimacy mean in the second half.
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