Episode 140 – Coddling Vs. Comforting

Episode 140 – Coddling Vs. Comforting

Author: Nicholeen Peck and Paije Baumert March 4, 2025 Duration: 43:11

In this episode, Nicholeen and Paije discuss the differences between coddling and comforting children. Do you know toddlers that “rule the roost”? Or teens who feel entitled to an easy-going life? Listen in for more insight on this topic and tips for how to overcome it!


In a world overflowing with parenting advice, the Teaching Self-Government Podcast offers a refreshingly grounded conversation. Hosted by mother-daughter duo Nicholeen Peck and Paije Baumert, this podcast moves beyond theory into the practical, often messy, realities of family life. Nicholeen, an internationally recognized parenting expert, and Paije, a certified parenting mentor, draw from their deep well of personal and professional experience. Their discussions are less about presenting perfect formulas and more about sharing the stories and principles that have shaped their own relationships. Listeners will hear candid reflections on communication, setting boundaries, and fostering responsibility, all framed within the framework of self-government. The tone is warm and accessible, making complex relational concepts feel immediately applicable. This isn't a lecture; it's a dialogue filled with relatable anecdotes and light-hearted moments that underscore their expertise. Each episode of this podcast feels like a thoughtful chat with wise friends who have been in the trenches and emerged with clarity and compassion. Whether navigating toddler tantrums, teenage dynamics, or marital harmony, Nicholeen and Paije provide tangible takeaways rooted in real-life application, making the Teaching Self-Government Podcast a trusted resource for anyone looking to cultivate more peace and understanding at home.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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