742. WHY COLLEGE FLASH ISN'T FIT

742. WHY COLLEGE FLASH ISN'T FIT

Author: Amy Seeley & Mike Bergin July 28, 2026 Duration: 27:16

How many bad relationships begin because people prioritize superficial qualities over true virtues? Whether you are looking for a partner or applying to college, your deeper values should inform your decisions. Amy and Mike invited educational consultant Ann Cadwallader to explain why college flash isn't fit.

What are five things you will learn in this episode?

  1. In terms of both college admissions and dating, what does it mean to say "flash isn't fit?"

  2. Why do students and families get pulled toward what looks impressive when building a college list?

  3. How does the idea of "potential" show up in the college process, and why can it be misleading?

  4. What do students needing to define their own criteria actually look like in practice?

  5. If a student is building a list right now, what important mindset shift should they adopt?

MEET OUR GUEST

Ann Cadwallader, founder of My University Coach, has worked in education for 35 years and has guided students through the college admissions process as an Independent Educational Consultant for nearly two decades. She holds a BS from Stanford University and an MBA from the University of Minnesota, and in 2020 earned the Certified Educational Planner designation — an achievement that reflects her deep expertise in college advising. 

Ann has personally visited 193 college campuses across the country, giving her firsthand insight into a wide range of schools and student experiences. Known for her calm, strategic approach, she is dedicated to reducing stress for both students and parents and helping families make smart, intentional choices—so students can tell their story with confidence and clarity. 

Ann previously appeared on this podcast in episode 670 to discuss Intentionality On The Road To College.

Ann can be reached at ann@myuniversitycoach.com.

LINKS

Flash Isn't Fit: What Dating Reminded Me About College Admissions

RELATED EPISODES

SELECTING YOUR FOREVER SCHOOL

FINDING YOUR COLLEGE FIT

FINDING YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF IN THE PATH TO COLLEGE 

POWER DYNAMICS IN COLLEGE ADMISSIONS

ABOUT THIS PODCAST

Tests and the Rest is THE college admissions industry podcast. Explore all of our episodes on the show page.

ABOUT YOUR HOSTS

Mike Bergin is the president of Chariot Learning and founder of TestBright, Roots2Words, and College Eagle. Amy Seeley is the president of Seeley Test Pros and LEAP. If you're interested in working with Mike and/or Amy for test preparation, training, or consulting, get in touch through our contact page.

 


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