229: Treating Love Addiction with Dr. Cortney Warren

229: Treating Love Addiction with Dr. Cortney Warren

Author: Duane Osterlind, LMFT April 17, 2023 Duration: 48:03
A lot of people go through an experience where they fall madly in love with someone, they crave them, and they want to be with them. There's this addictive nature of romantic love. And then for whatever reason, it doesn't work and you break up. Now, what? That being said, falling in love does not mean something’s wrong with you. Dr. Cortney S. Warren is a Board Certified Clinical Psychologist and Adjunct Clinical Professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Health at the Kirk Kerkorian School of Medicine at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas (UNLV).  Having won numerous professional awards for her research, Cortney is an expert on addictions, self-deception, romantic relationships, eating pathology, and the practice of psychotherapy from a cross-cultural perspective.  Today, we’re going to talk about her book, Letting Go of Your Ex: CBT Skills to Heal the Pain of a Breakup and Overcome Love Addiction (2023). This is perfect for readers who are trying to explore breakups through an addictive framework. In this episode, you will hear: How is love addictive? How do we know when we're in a relationship that might be love addicted?  What to do when we're ending the relationship and how do we get out of that relationship in a way that brings about personal growth and self-actualization? How love addiction goes awry What is love addiction? Evaluating your core beliefs about romantic love How romantic love is portrayed in the media The addictive nature of a breakup What is CBT and how does it work? Subscribe and Review Have you subscribed to our podcast? We’d love for you to subscribe if you haven’t yet.  We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. Supporting Resources: Dr. Cortney Warren’s Social Media links:  Website: https://drcortney.com/ Psychology Today Naked Truth Blog: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/naked-truth Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CortneySWarren  Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrCortneyWarren  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drcortney/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLQGXD7Ms5oR3GzsPZl3Tjl_9qj71MezHj Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=Ka7bam4AAAAJ&hl=en Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcortneywarren/?hl=en TEDx Talk: Honest Liars https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpEeSa6zBTE&t=2s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drcortneywarren?lang=en  NovusMindfulLife.com Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hosted by licensed therapist Duane Osterlind, The Addicted Mind Podcast moves beyond simple discussions to explore the complex realities of addiction and recovery. Each episode blends compassionate conversation with practical insight, creating a resource that feels both supportive and actionable. You’ll hear from a range of voices, including specialists in the field and individuals who have personally navigated the path to recovery, sharing their stories and the strategies that made a difference. These conversations delve into how addiction shapes thoughts and behaviors, while also highlighting the many forms healing can take. The aim is to provide genuine understanding and tangible guidance for anyone touched by addiction, whether personally or through a loved one. By focusing on real-world experiences and relevant research, this podcast builds a bridge from struggle to possibility, emphasizing that recovery, while challenging, is a journey filled with hope. Tune in for honest dialogue that respects the difficulty of the process while illuminating the steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 101

The Addicted Mind Podcast
Podcast Episodes
145: Achieving Recovery Through The Wolf You Feed with Sophie Aghdami [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:43
Sophie Aghdami is an addiction recovery coach in Australia. Today, she shares her own story of recovery from alcoholism as well as how a particular parable helped change her whole perspective on recovery, find success in…
144: The Journey Through Alcoholism and Recovery with Charlie Gray [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:31
On today’s episode, Duane talks with Charlie Gray about his journey of hope and resiliency through his toxic relationship with vodka and the one thing that allowed him to stay sober. In his memoir, At Least I’m Not The F…
143: A Hope to Put an End to the Opioid Epidemic with Robert Kanter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:17
In this episode, Duane speaks with Robert Kanter, an international recovery advocate addressing the opioid epidemic. Today, he talks about his advocacy work with the opioid epidemic. He also tells his own story of recove…
141: Pregnancy and Addiction with Dr. Charles Schauberger [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:16
Patients with substance use disorder have every right to be pregnant and have children as much as anyone else. Some people look at it as being irresponsible but who are we to judge? In fact, our guest today explains how…
140: Stop Hiding and Start Healing with Craig Brown [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:41
What happens when your pain is greater than your fears? On this episode, Duane speaks with Recovery Pastor Craig Brown and author of the book, Stop Hiding, Start Healing. Craig shares his recovery journey coming out of a…
88: Recovery Dharma with Josh Rychert [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:26
Josh Rychert joins us today. He will be talking about the recovery community called Recovery Dharma, in Boise, Idaho. Josh shares his personal story and explains how mindfulness, Buddhism, and learning to understand his…
87: The Root of the Addictive Process with Alex Katehakis [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:21
Today's guest is Alex Katehakis. Alex is a Clinical Sexologist with a doctorate in human sexuality. She's also the Clinical Director of the Center For Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, California. Alex has written several book…
86: Treatment and Recovery from Chemsex Addiction [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:35
David Fawcett is our guest for today and he will be talking about chemsex addiction. He will explain what it is and how people recover when they fuse a drug addiction and a sex addiction. Episode Link>>>>>www.theaddicted…
85: Using Breathwork to Cope with a Food Addiction with Kathleen Oh [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:20
Kathleen Oh is our guest for today. We have a great conversation with her about breathwork, facilitating change, and non-ordinary experiences. Episode Link>>>>www.theaddictedmind.com/85 Kathleen is an Integration Coach,…