#2: More Orgasms, How To Explore Sexual Fantasies & Why "Asking" For Sex Is A Bad Idea With Dr. Lori Buckley

#2: More Orgasms, How To Explore Sexual Fantasies & Why "Asking" For Sex Is A Bad Idea With Dr. Lori Buckley

Author: Sean Jameson February 14, 2017 Duration: 40:20

Sex Therapist Dr. Lori Buckley is my guest on the podcast today. We talk about everything from how to more easily reach orgasm during sex to getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas in the bedroom. You'll also learn why a "judgy" attitude in the bedroom is a bad idea and why "asking" for sex is even worse.

Show Highlights

1.35 Lori's background and how she became a sex therapist.
5.10 We discuss why some women struggle to reach orgasm during sex.
9.20 Why getting "out of your head" is vital for reaching orgasm more easily.
11.40 A simple technique to help you orgasm during sex.
15.30 Tips for getting over sexual shame and exploring new fantasies and ideas.
20.00 Simple steps for sharing your sexual fantasies and fetishes with your man.
23.10 Why a "judgy" attitude is going to kill your sex life.
28.30 An easy trick for getting in the mood, IF you are in a long term relationship.
29.15 Why asking for sex is a BAD idea.
35.30 Why women sometimes need their man to be more assertive.
36.20 Why many gifts don't need to cost a cent but still have a massive impact.
37.00 We talk about the deep importance of sexual tension in your relationship.

You can learn more about Dr. Lori Buckley at https://www.drloribuckley.com/ and listen to her podcast here on iTunes (https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/looking-for-love/id1146640020).


Sean Jameson hosts The Bad Girls Bible-Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice, a space where candid conversations replace awkward silences. This isn't about theoretical advice from a single perspective; instead, Sean brings a range of voices to the microphone, from therapists and researchers to people with compelling personal stories. The discussions are grounded in real-world application, focusing on actionable strategies rather than vague notions. You'll hear specific techniques and thoughtful insights that address the complexities of intimacy and partnership, whether you're navigating early dating, seeking to deepen a long-term relationship, or revitalizing the connection in a marriage. The tone is direct and respectful, treating these often-taboo topics with the seriousness and nuance they deserve. By tuning into this podcast, you gain access to a collective wisdom aimed at fostering confidence and understanding in all facets of your personal life. It’s a resource for anyone ready to move past frustration and into a more fulfilling and empowered experience of sex and love, with each episode designed to provide tangible takeaways you can consider and apply.
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