#3: Swinging 101, How To Explore Swinging Safely With Your Partner & How To Make It Incredible For Both Of You With Cooper S. Beckett

#3: Swinging 101, How To Explore Swinging Safely With Your Partner & How To Make It Incredible For Both Of You With Cooper S. Beckett

Author: Sean Jameson February 14, 2017 Duration: 58:32

In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.

Show Highlights

1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene.
4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people.
6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging
6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different.
8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating
9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract."
10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way.
18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills.
18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience.
21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites
23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull.
25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations.
28.40 - Dealing with jealousy.
33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you
43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy

Show Notes
Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show

More On Cooper
If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:

http://coopersbeckett.com/
https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en
https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/
https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/

Cooper's Podcast
Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/
Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2

Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts:
swingset.fm

Cooper's 1st book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/

Cooper's 2nd book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/

Special Discount for Listeners
Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.


Sean Jameson hosts The Bad Girls Bible-Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice, a space where candid conversations replace awkward silences. This isn't about theoretical advice from a single perspective; instead, Sean brings a range of voices to the microphone, from therapists and researchers to people with compelling personal stories. The discussions are grounded in real-world application, focusing on actionable strategies rather than vague notions. You'll hear specific techniques and thoughtful insights that address the complexities of intimacy and partnership, whether you're navigating early dating, seeking to deepen a long-term relationship, or revitalizing the connection in a marriage. The tone is direct and respectful, treating these often-taboo topics with the seriousness and nuance they deserve. By tuning into this podcast, you gain access to a collective wisdom aimed at fostering confidence and understanding in all facets of your personal life. It’s a resource for anyone ready to move past frustration and into a more fulfilling and empowered experience of sex and love, with each episode designed to provide tangible takeaways you can consider and apply.
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