#46 BDSM 101: No 50 Shades of Grey B******t with Dan and Dawn

#46 BDSM 101: No 50 Shades of Grey B******t with Dan and Dawn

Author: Sean Jameson May 6, 2019 Duration: 27:33

On the show today we welcome Dan and Dawn Williams, master-slave couple, kink enthusiasts podcast hosts and authors of the new book Living M/S! Our guests unpack their own experiences of discovering their submissive and dominant sides and how they found each other and each other's limits.

 

They explain some basics about the master-slave dynamic and how it fits into the broader world of BDSM and kink play. They explain the important role of trust and the things that are pivotal in making a relationship like theirs work. We talk a bit about the events, parties and activities which they enjoy and Dan and Dawn are so open and honest, explaining the erotic nature of their lives.

 

The conversation also covers, shame, abusive relationships and how sharing stories, using cards and watching porn can help certain couples.

 

Key Points From This Episode

 

  • Dan and Dawn's awakening to their dominant and submissive sides.
  • A little bit about how their master-salve relationship works.
  • Earning trust and taking responsibility for mistakes. 
  • Contrasting Dawns and Dan's average day with other relationships.
  • Parties, dungeons and the BDSM play that the couple enjoy.
  • The parts of play that each of them engage with.
  • Considering the erotic and non-erotic elements of play.
  • Some of the issues of shame related to submission. 
  • Comparing a sub-dom relationship with an abusive relationship.
  • The helpful act of sharing naughty stories and porn. 
  • And much more!

 

Tweetables

 

"In our case, it happens to be a male led relationship where I happen to be in charge. What that means is that I take responsibility for everything in the relationship." [0:03:45]

 

"If something needs to be addressed, it's addressed head on instead of sideways. It's a very authentic relationship where we've decided, what do we want this relationship to be." [0:11:05]

 

Links Mentioned in Today's Episode

 

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Erotic Awakening Podcast — http://www.eroticawakening.com

Dan and Dawn Email — dananddawn@eroticawakening.com.

Living MS — https://www.amazon.com/Living-Masters-slaves-Their-Relationships/dp/1610981952/

The Kink Starter — http://www.eroticawakening.com/kinkstarter/


Sean Jameson hosts The Bad Girls Bible-Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice, a space where candid conversations replace awkward silences. This isn't about theoretical advice from a single perspective; instead, Sean brings a range of voices to the microphone, from therapists and researchers to people with compelling personal stories. The discussions are grounded in real-world application, focusing on actionable strategies rather than vague notions. You'll hear specific techniques and thoughtful insights that address the complexities of intimacy and partnership, whether you're navigating early dating, seeking to deepen a long-term relationship, or revitalizing the connection in a marriage. The tone is direct and respectful, treating these often-taboo topics with the seriousness and nuance they deserve. By tuning into this podcast, you gain access to a collective wisdom aimed at fostering confidence and understanding in all facets of your personal life. It’s a resource for anyone ready to move past frustration and into a more fulfilling and empowered experience of sex and love, with each episode designed to provide tangible takeaways you can consider and apply.
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