#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk

#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk

Author: Sean Jameson February 28, 2017 Duration: 38:52

Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to sean@badgirlsbible.com.

Show Highlights

2.35 - How to deal with a man that is "jealous" of your vibrator.

6.25 - How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun.

8.20 - What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal.

8.50 - The do's and don'ts of mixing alcohol and sex.

9.40 - Why guys are afraid of pegging.

14.05 - Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it's happening to so many guys.

16.20 - We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship.

23.10 - Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man.

24.50 - Why the submissive is always in control.

25.50 - Safe words and the traffic light system.

27.10 - Why BDSM doesn't have to be "hardcore" but can be a little bit more subtle and light.

32.50 - Practical tips for moving past infidelity.

More About Dr. Kat Van Kirk

You can find Dr. Kat at http://drkat.com or on social media:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drkatvankirk
Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrKatSexChat
Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/drkatvk/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drkatvk/
Tumblr - http://drkatsexchat.tumblr.com/


Sean Jameson hosts The Bad Girls Bible-Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice, a space where candid conversations replace awkward silences. This isn't about theoretical advice from a single perspective; instead, Sean brings a range of voices to the microphone, from therapists and researchers to people with compelling personal stories. The discussions are grounded in real-world application, focusing on actionable strategies rather than vague notions. You'll hear specific techniques and thoughtful insights that address the complexities of intimacy and partnership, whether you're navigating early dating, seeking to deepen a long-term relationship, or revitalizing the connection in a marriage. The tone is direct and respectful, treating these often-taboo topics with the seriousness and nuance they deserve. By tuning into this podcast, you gain access to a collective wisdom aimed at fostering confidence and understanding in all facets of your personal life. It’s a resource for anyone ready to move past frustration and into a more fulfilling and empowered experience of sex and love, with each episode designed to provide tangible takeaways you can consider and apply.
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