EP 257: One Reason why Kids Melt Down after School

EP 257: One Reason why Kids Melt Down after School

Author: Robyn Gobbel March 17, 2026 Duration: 44:37
When your kid melts down after school, it seems like they just have a bad attitude or don’t want to do homework. But sometimes those explosions have less to do with behavior and more to do with a nervous system that has been working hard to handle sensory stress all day long. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why do many kids fall apart after school, even if they seemed “fine” all dayHow the sensory environment at school can slowly chip away at a child’s regulationWhy after-school meltdowns ofte...

Robyn Gobbel, an internationally recognized expert in children's mental health, hosts The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}. This podcast serves as a compassionate guide for parents raising children whose nervous systems are vulnerable due to past trauma, toxic stress, neuroimmune disorders, or sensory processing differences. Each episode is dedicated to decoding the confusing and often overwhelming behaviors that can leave caregivers feeling isolated and unsure. Robyn translates complex neuroscience and attachment theory into practical, relatable insights, moving beyond simple behavioral tips to address the root causes of family stress. You'll find a sense of community and understanding here, a place where the struggle is acknowledged without judgment. The conversations in this podcast offer more than strategies; they provide a framework for building safety and connection, helping to shift your perspective from "what's wrong with my child" to "what happened to my child." It’s a resource for anyone exhausted by conventional advice that hasn't worked, emphasizing that you are not alone on this journey. Through stories, expert interviews, and Robyn's own grounded wisdom, the podcast fosters resilience and hope, empowering you to create a family life grounded in co-regulation and mutual understanding.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Podcast Episodes
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Duration: 50:34
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REPLAY: When Connection isn't Safe- Oppositional Series Part 3 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:49
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REPLAY: Strategies for Oppositional Behavior- Part 2 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:46
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REPLAY: Oppositional And Defiant Behavior- Part 1 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:51
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REPLAY: Felt Safety (Between) Part 3 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:20
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REPLAY: Felt Safety (Outside) Part 2 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:05
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REPLAY: Felt Safety (Inside) - Part 1 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:13
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EP 247: 5 Tips from our Top 5 Episodes for our 5th Birthday! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:32
To celebrate our 5th birthday, I gathered 5 tips from our top 5 episodes. I’m revisiting important take-aways from episodes about boundaries, oppositional behavior, and how parenting kids with a vulnerable nervous system…