Ep. 597: Is It Okay to Look Hot for Your Partner?

Ep. 597: Is It Okay to Look Hot for Your Partner?

Author: Danny-J Johnson & Jill Coleman October 22, 2025 Duration: 29:26

As we get older, we want to look and feel good for ourselves, but we kind of want to look good for our partners too! Men can be annoying as hell for sure, but men as a whole are not the same thing as the individual men in our lives, and that includes our partners. It’s not a crime to want to look hot for your significant other! Life is long and there are ways our appearances will change that we have no control over and of course we hope to be loved through all of those changes. Buuuuut that doesn’t mean we’ve given up on trying to be hot in the ways we can control. 


The chronically late personality type [2:51]

The right time to get to the airport [9:11]

Looking good for yourself AND your partner [11:36] 

Controlling the things you can control [15:41]

The energetics of feeling hot [19:22]

Compatible lifestyles [22:07]

Sometimes we make it about looks when it isn’t [24:26]


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