Ep. 640: Even Masturbating Takes Too Much Work

Ep. 640: Even Masturbating Takes Too Much Work

Author: Danny-J Johnson & Jill Coleman August 19, 2026 Duration: 36:04

Maybe it’s the trauma of betrayal, the changing of our hormones, or just general exhaustion, but sex is off the menu. We’ve seen enough non-contextual dicks and had our hearts broken enough time to last a life time. Opening up again sounds like way too much effort, and frankly, so does the act of masturbating. Maybe the next chapter of the Best Life looks more like the Nun Life. That’s fine by us.


Getting back on a routine after travel [3:45]

Our changing hormones [11:35]

A lowered libido [13:24]

Betrayal trauma and sex [16:53]

Non-contextual dicks [18:43]

Closing off to the possibility of getting hurt again [21:10]

The state of dating is exhausting [23:58]

Success on an app doesn’t make success in a relationship [29:33]

“Normal” masturbation [31:40]


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Hosted by Danny-J Johnson and Jill Coleman, The Best Life Podcast is a candid conversation about building a meaningful existence on your own terms. This isn't about generic advice; it's a practical exploration of how the pieces of a fulfilling life actually fit together. You'll hear discussions that connect the dots between practical ambition and personal well-being, tackling topics like smart productivity systems, the psychology behind money mindsets, and navigating relationships with honest communication. The dialogue often draws from principles of positive psychology and cultivating abundance, not as separate goals, but as integrated parts of a whole. The aim is to move beyond just success in business or fitness-though those are in the mix-and toward a more cohesive vision. Each episode in this podcast is designed to challenge assumptions and offer actionable perspectives, whether the subject is entrepreneurial resilience, mental health, or redefining what personal achievement really means. It's for anyone questioning the standard blueprint and actively constructing a life that feels genuinely chosen, not accidental. Tune in for thoughtful, often unconventional, takes on self-improvement that acknowledge the messy, non-linear path of real growth.
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