A Doula: The Quiet Birth Warrior By Your Side with HeHe Stewart | 155

A Doula: The Quiet Birth Warrior By Your Side with HeHe Stewart | 155

Author: Trish Ware, RN March 7, 2025 Duration: 45:06

Trish welcomes HeHe, a dedicated doula, birth advocate, and host of The Birth Lounge podcast. They dive deep into the significant role that doulas play in empowering parents during childbirth through advocacy, education, and effective communication. 

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HeHe shares her journey from working with children on the autism spectrum to becoming a doula, highlighting the recurring themes of birth trauma and anxiety among parents from a lack of education or support. 

This episode focuses on the doula’s role in birth, covering how to prepare for unexpected situations during labor, creating collaborative relationships in the birth room, and the importance of therapy for birth workers. 

Whether you're a doula, a pregnant mama, or simply interested in birth advocacy, this episode provides valuable insights into making informed birth decisions and fostering a supportive birth environment.

00:54 Meet HeHe: Doula and Birth Advocate

04:30 Empowering Parents in the Birth Room

08:56 Balancing Advocacy and Professionalism

11:18 The Role of Doulas in Birth Decisions

19:38 The Importance of Birth Planning

24:37 Tips for Doulas in Hospital Settings

26:22 Creating a Comfortable Birth Environment

38:00 Polite Communication and Hospital Culture

39:38 The Role of a Doula as an Advocate

Connect with HeHe:

Follow her on Instagram: @tranquilitybyhehe & @the.birth.lounge

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Ever find yourself scrolling through endless forums late at night, wondering about the real, unfiltered details of childbirth that no one seems to talk about plainly? The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama is here to change that. Hosted by Trish Ware, RN, this podcast draws directly from her years in the delivery room, where she’s helped bring thousands of newborns into the world. She knows the questions that keep you up at night, from the logistical-like how to effectively push or what Pitocin actually does-to the vulnerable fears about epidurals, VBACs, or those embarrassing but totally normal moments. Trish moves beyond clinical jargon to offer honest, compassionate, and evidence-based insights that feel like a conversation with a trusted friend who’s seen it all. Each episode tackles a specific aspect of pregnancy, labor, and early parenting, like navigating breastfeeding challenges or figuring out newborn care, with the goal of replacing anxiety with practical knowledge. Tuning into this podcast means getting a seasoned labor nurse’s perspective delivered with warmth and a deep understanding of what you’re going through, helping you feel more prepared and empowered for your own journey.
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