Scary Thoughts After Birth: Here’s the Truth About PPD and Intrusive Thoughts | 169

Scary Thoughts After Birth: Here’s the Truth About PPD and Intrusive Thoughts | 169

Author: Trish Ware, RN May 16, 2025 Duration: 16:56

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Today’s episode is one that every mom should listen to before having a baby. Trish is talking about something so many moms experience after birth, and that is scary, intrusive thoughts and postpartum depression. 

 Intrusive thoughts are unwanted, distressing, repetitive thoughts, thoughts that just keep coming into your brain, especially during times of stress - like right after having a baby.

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If you’ve experienced thoughts like “what if I dropped the baby?”, “what if something terrible happens?”, “what kind of mother thinks like this?” - you’re not broken, you’re not dangerous, and you’re absolutely not a bad mom. 

Trish shares her own experiences with intrusive thoughts and emphasizes that this often happens to moms resulting from stress and hypervigilance to protect their babies. 

Trish also offers practical techniques for managing distressing thoughts and encourages mothers to speak out and to seek support - either through trusted confidantes, mental health professionals, or supportive communities. 

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The Mother Wound & Its Effect on Postpartum: Maranda Bower | 76

01:16 Understanding Intrusive Thoughts

02:14 My Experience with Intrusive Thoughts

03:15 The Nature of Intrusive Thoughts

05:33 Intrusive Thoughts vs. Postpartum Depression

06:49 Seeking Support and Healing

07:17 Community and Resources

10:46 Grounding Techniques and Final Encouragement

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Ever find yourself scrolling through endless forums late at night, wondering about the real, unfiltered details of childbirth that no one seems to talk about plainly? The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama is here to change that. Hosted by Trish Ware, RN, this podcast draws directly from her years in the delivery room, where she’s helped bring thousands of newborns into the world. She knows the questions that keep you up at night, from the logistical-like how to effectively push or what Pitocin actually does-to the vulnerable fears about epidurals, VBACs, or those embarrassing but totally normal moments. Trish moves beyond clinical jargon to offer honest, compassionate, and evidence-based insights that feel like a conversation with a trusted friend who’s seen it all. Each episode tackles a specific aspect of pregnancy, labor, and early parenting, like navigating breastfeeding challenges or figuring out newborn care, with the goal of replacing anxiety with practical knowledge. Tuning into this podcast means getting a seasoned labor nurse’s perspective delivered with warmth and a deep understanding of what you’re going through, helping you feel more prepared and empowered for your own journey.
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