YES! You can say no! You have the right to make choices during BIRTH! | 159

YES! You can say no! You have the right to make choices during BIRTH! | 159

Author: Trish Ware, RN April 4, 2025 Duration: 8:28

Reclaim your autonomy in the delivery room. You have the right to say NO in your birth!

In this episode, Trish discusses the critical importance of maintaining autonomy during pregnancy and birth. 

She challenges the societal norm where strong, capable, pregnant women defer to healthcare authorities without question, emphasizing the need for women to be informed, ask questions, and confidently make decisions about their birth experience. 

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She underscores the importance of practicing autonomy during prenatal appointments to build confidence for labor and delivery. 

Trish highlights the benefits of her online birth classes, designed to empower expecting mothers by providing them with the knowledge and tools necessary to navigate labor confidently. 

“ I am so passionate about changing this birth culture, not just for you guys, but for my own daughters, for my daughter-in-laws, because I don't want you guys to go through what I had happened to me and what I've seen thousands of women go through -  we can't do this anymore. We have to stand up and bring that power into the birth room.” - Trish

Tune in for tips on how to advocate for yourself and transform your birth story into a powerful, positive birth experience.

More from this episode:

Listen to Episode 19: Your Pregnancy Rights: What if Your Provider says "Don't Let" or "You Can't?""

Listen to Episode 156: Birth Fears: Why You Feel Anxious and How to Feel Confident Instead

00:21 Autonomy During Pregnancy

01:46 The Importance of Advocating for Yourself

03:41 Building Autonomy Throughout Pregnancy

04:33 Empowerment Through Education and Support

07:47 Resources

Resources:

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Next Steps with LNM:

If you are ready to invest in your pregnancy & postpartum journey, you are in the right place. I would love to take your hand and support you in your virtual labor room!

If you are ready to dive into a birth class and have your best and most powerful birth story, then Calm Labor Confident Birth or The VBAC Lab is your next step.

If you have a scheduled cesarean, take our Belly Birth Masterclass and own that experience.

If you are a newly pregnant mama or just had the babe, you want to join our private pregnancy and postpartum membership, Calm Mama Society.

Remember, my advice is not medical advice. Always discuss what you learn with your team. See my Disclaimer here! Also, We make a small commission from some of the links (you don’t pay any more for using our links); however some of the recommendations, we do not earn anything; we love ’em and want you to know about them.


Ever find yourself scrolling through endless forums late at night, wondering about the real, unfiltered details of childbirth that no one seems to talk about plainly? The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama is here to change that. Hosted by Trish Ware, RN, this podcast draws directly from her years in the delivery room, where she’s helped bring thousands of newborns into the world. She knows the questions that keep you up at night, from the logistical-like how to effectively push or what Pitocin actually does-to the vulnerable fears about epidurals, VBACs, or those embarrassing but totally normal moments. Trish moves beyond clinical jargon to offer honest, compassionate, and evidence-based insights that feel like a conversation with a trusted friend who’s seen it all. Each episode tackles a specific aspect of pregnancy, labor, and early parenting, like navigating breastfeeding challenges or figuring out newborn care, with the goal of replacing anxiety with practical knowledge. Tuning into this podcast means getting a seasoned labor nurse’s perspective delivered with warmth and a deep understanding of what you’re going through, helping you feel more prepared and empowered for your own journey.
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