Ep. 331, Recast Pushing Effectively with Melissa Chappell, LDEM, CPM

Ep. 331, Recast Pushing Effectively with Melissa Chappell, LDEM, CPM

Author: HeHe Stewart March 26, 2025 Duration: 43:26
In this recast episode of the Birth Lounge Podcast, host HeHe and certified professional midwife Melissa Chapel dive into candid discussions about pregnancy, labor, and postpartum. The podcast offers a wealth of evidence-based information, understanding the importance of feeling pressure during labor, and recognizing the difference between intermittent and constant rectal or vaginal pressure. Melissa also addresses the controversial practice of being asked not to push if a doctor isn't present. Both emphasize the significance of mental and emotional preparedness in labor. The episode concludes with insights into laboring down, resting stages during labor, and navigating hospital protocols. This episode is a must-listen for expecting parents, laboring mothers, and professionals supporting childbirth. 01:23 Free Class: Avoiding C-Sections and Reducing Tearing 03:10 Part Two: Interview with Midwife Melissa Chapel 03:33 Understanding the Urge to Push 10:00 Navigating Hospital Birth Challenges 20:30 Understanding Cervical Dilation 21:15 Factors Affecting Cervical Changes 23:22 The Role of Fear in Labor 26:21 Mental and Emotional Barriers 27:34 The Importance of Acceptance in Birth 31:25 Laboring Down: Rest and Be Thankful 35:24 Navigating Hospital Births 38:03 Resources and Support for Birth 40:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Guest Bio: Melissa Chappell, LDEM, CPM is a midwife and owner of two birth centers in Utah, as well as a doula trainer of over 20 years. She is passionate about women’s health from a holistic and nourishing perspective, and advocates for women’s wellness in all areas of their lives. She has worked with midwives and birthing women all over the world, including in Haiti, Ethiopia, and Kenya, and loves seeing how women’s lives improve with access to safe and effective midwifery care. She’s the owner of Fresh Melissa, a company dedicated to creating tasty treats that are also healthy. She is the mother of 4 children and 3 grandchildren that she adores. In between catching babies, Melissa loves to explore as much of the world as she can – from international travel to exploring the mountains in her backyard. SOCIAL MEDIA: Connect with HeHe on IG  Connect with HeHe on YouTube   Connect with Melissa on IG    BIRTH EDUCATION: Get HeHe’s Free Class to Avoid C-Section   Join The Birth Lounge here for judgment-free childbirth education that prepares you for an informed birth and how to confidently navigate hospital policy to have a trauma-free labor experience!   Download The Birth Lounge App for birth & postpartum prep delivered straight to your phone!   LINKS MENTIONED: Connect with Melissa here!   

Hosted by birth and newborn expert HeHe Stewart, The Birth Lounge Podcast creates a thoughtful conversation around the many paths through pregnancy, birth, and early parenthood. This podcast moves beyond simplistic advice to explore the wide spectrum of normal experiences, offering evidence-based insights alongside real stories from parents. HeHe, who founded Tranquility by HeHe Maternity Concierge, guides these discussions with a blend of professional knowledge and deep empathy, aiming to demystify the process and empower your choices. Each episode serves as a gathering place-a safe space where clinical expertise meets lived experience, covering topics that span education, family dynamics, physical fitness, holistic health, and parenting young children. You’ll find a supportive resource here, one that acknowledges the variables and nuances of bringing a child into the world and navigating the postpartum chapter. Tune in for honest dialogues that honor different perspectives, providing companionship and reliable information for your own journey. The goal is to leave you feeling more prepared, less alone, and confident in your unique path through parenthood, all within the supportive community of this podcast.
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