Boundaries for People Pleasers: Episode 931

Boundaries for People Pleasers: Episode 931

Author: Focus on the Family December 4, 2025 Duration: 1:04:28

Responding to restlessness on the job, plus Dr. Henry Cloud on establishing boundaries, and wisdom with physical touch when dating.   

Featured musical artist: Je’kob

Roundtable: Why Am I So Restless at Work?

We all experience restlessness with our jobs or chosen career paths. But how do we discern when restlessness is discontentment or fear versus a sign that we need to move on to something new? Our guests share their own examples of feeling the “career itch” and how they’ve dealt with it effectively.       

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Culture: Lessons From a Boundaries Expert

Are you a people pleaser? Do you assume you can never say no for fear of disappointing others? Do you resent those who walk all over you, even as you let them do it? Dr. Henry Cloud wrote the defining book on boundaries and joins us with instruction for taking back our lives from our own fear, passivity and boundary busting. 

 Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life  

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Inbox: A Word About Touch

Physical touch may be your love language, but guardrails are still biblical and wise, especially with someone you’re dating. What should you know and do to honor God in this area? Counselor Andrea Vidano weighs in.    

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