How to Ask a Girl Out: Episode 913

How to Ask a Girl Out: Episode 913

Author: Focus on the Family July 31, 2025 Duration: 1:02:36

Tips for getting a first date, plus lessons from a man’s spiritual deconstruction, and when your girlfriend hangs out a lot with her gay friends.     

 

Featured musical artist: Kerrie Roberts

 

Roundtable: Want to Get Coffee?

 

Asking a girl out isn’t easy; it requires courage. But for many men, their approach is awkward, ill-planned, and lacking confidence — if they summon the nerve to ask at all. Is there a way to ask a woman on a date without making it weird? Our panel of men offers helpful tips from the trenches.       

 

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Culture: Lessons in Deconstruction

 

Nicholas McDonald grew up with a faith that was often formulaic: Do this and get that result from God. But after experiencing the death of his brother and going on a missions trip to another country, Nicholas grappled with the definition of true faith and what Christian beliefs are actually biblical, not just based on tradition or cultural norms. He shares his story with us and models what it looks like to follow Jesus even when you have difficult questions.     

 

Inbox: My Girlfriend Spends Too Much Time With Her Gay Friends

Our listener is concerned about his girlfriend hanging out with her longtime guy friends who identify as gay. Is it time for a hard conversation? Jeff Johnston weighs in. 

 

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