When to Get Engaged: Episode 905

When to Get Engaged: Episode 905

Author: Focus on the Family June 5, 2025 Duration: 1:01:40

Motivation for starting over, plus a marriage expert says when to tie the knot, and balancing Christian community with non-Christian friends.   

 

Featured musical artist: David Dunn

 

Roundtable: National Start Over Day

 

A breakup. A job layoff. An unmet goal. When failure, loss and disappointment happen, sometimes the best thing you can do is press reset. Today is National Start Over Day, and if you need a second (or third, fourth or fifth) chance, you’ll be encouraged by our guests’ stories as they share what it’s like to start over when life knocks you down.        

 

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Link to Counseling Services 

 

Culture: Is It Time to Propose?

 

Some people date for years, others for only a few months. There’s not a one-size-fits-all approach to moving toward marriage, but there is wisdom in knowing when to get engaged. What should you know about your boyfriend or girlfriend? About yourself? How can you tell the difference between cold feet and red flags? Bob Paul is a marriage therapist with both expertise and cautionary tales aplenty. He’ll help you parse out what you must know before deciding to tie the knot.  

 

 Ready to Wed: 12 Ways to Start a Marriage You’ll Love   

 

Link To Hope Restored

 

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Empowered to Love: Discovering Your God-Given Power to Create a Marriage You Both Love   

 

Inbox: Balancing Christian vs. Non-Christian Friends

 

How do you know if you’re spending enough time with your Christian friends? How about your non-Christian friends and neighbors? Lisa Anderson weighs in. 

 

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Navigating your twenties and thirties as a person of faith brings a unique set of questions and crossroads. The Boundless Show, from Focus on the Family, steps into that space with genuine dialogue. Host Lisa Anderson guides conversations that feel like a thoughtful chat with friends who get it-tackling the real tensions between career and calling, the desire for meaningful relationships, and the journey of cultivating a personal faith that stands firm in modern culture. This isn't about easy answers, but about exploring how to live with purpose and integrity when society offers countless other paths. Each episode delves into the practical and spiritual aspects of life, from dating intentionally and preparing for marriage to building community and finding your place in the world. The young adult years are formative, and this podcast provides a grounded, Christian perspective on the choices that define them. Tune in for honest stories, relatable struggles, and encouragement that honors the complexities of building a life rooted in something lasting. It's a resource for anyone seeking a thoughtful, faith-based companion through the boundless possibilities of adulthood.
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