582. How to Get What You Want

582. How to Get What You Want

Author: Melina Palmer June 18, 2026 Duration: 44:47

In this episode of The Brainy Business podcast, Melina Palmer welcomes Joshua Bandoch, author of the insightful book How to Get What You Want: Mastering the Art and Science of Persuasion. Together, they delve into the fascinating world of persuasion and the subtle art of influencing others without seeming pushy. Joshua shares his unique perspective on how understanding the desires and feelings of others can lead to more effective communication and successful outcomes.

Listeners will discover that true persuasion is not about winning arguments or convincing others to adopt your viewpoint; it's about creating shared action and understanding the underlying emotional currents that drive decision-making. Throughout the conversation, Joshua emphasizes the importance of empathy, the power of positive framing, and the necessity of aligning your message with the values of your audience.

This episode is a treasure trove of actionable insights for anyone looking to enhance their persuasive skills, whether in business, personal interactions, or public speaking. Joshua's practical advice will inspire you to rethink your approach and empower you to achieve your goals while helping others do the same.

In this episode:

  • Understand the key principles of effective persuasion and how to apply them in various contexts.
  • Learn the significance of emotional intelligence in crafting persuasive messages.
  • Explore the concept of shared action and how to create win-win scenarios.
  • Discover practical strategies for overcoming objections and identifying barriers to agreement.
  • Gain insights on how to tailor your communication style to resonate with different audiences.

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Melina Palmer hosts The Brainy Business | Understanding the Psychology of Why People Buy | Behavioral Economics, a podcast built on the idea that consumer behavior is often surprising and counterintuitive. As a sales conversion expert, Melina translates the often dense academic research from behavioral economics into clear, practical strategies. Each episode digs into the psychological forces that guide decisions, explaining why customers frequently act in ways that contradict their own stated intentions. You’ll hear specific examples of these principles in action, from pricing and product placement to communication and website design. The focus is always on providing listeners with immediately usable insights to create a more effective, brain-friendly business. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s about understanding the real-world science behind why people choose to buy-or walk away. For anyone involved in marketing, leadership, or entrepreneurship, this podcast serves as a regular source of grounded, evidence-based advice. Melina’s approach makes the complex wonderfully accessible, turning the weirdness of consumer psychology into a tangible advantage. Tune in to learn how subtle shifts in framing and choice architecture can lead to significant improvements in how your business connects with and serves its audience.
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