406: The Excuses We Can't Afford, The Mistakes & The Truth About Becoming a Millionaire | Fo Alexander interviews Bola Sokunbi

406: The Excuses We Can't Afford, The Mistakes & The Truth About Becoming a Millionaire | Fo Alexander interviews Bola Sokunbi

Author: Clever Girl Finance March 10, 2026 Duration: 43:46

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In this candid interview, Fo Alexander of Mama & Money sits down with Bola Sokunbi—founder of Clever Girl Finance and author of the new book, Clever Girl Millionaire, to uncover the unfiltered truth about building wealth.

They dive deep into the excuses that keep us stuck in "survival mode," the expensive setbacks we are too ashamed to talk about (like Bola's massive 401(k) and wedding expense mistakes!), and the practical steps required to move from financial stability to serious abundance. If you have ever felt "behind" or overwhelmed by the pressure of perfect financial timelines, this conversation is for you.

 

FO AND BOLA DISCUSSED:

  • Why your financial comeback matters more than your setback, and why you cannot shame yourself into wealth.
  • Why it is never too late to start building your legacy.
  • The Excuses We Can't Afford: How to pivot from fear-based saving (safety) to asset-based growth (freedom).
  • The 4 Pillars of Prosperity: A realistic breakdown of Earned Income, Investing, Real Estate, and Entrepreneurship.

 

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