Aja Barber

Aja Barber

Author: Samantha Baines March 2, 2022 Duration: 47:55

"Only you know what you need and you have to block out the stigma and the judgment to get help" - Aja Barber


Writer and stylist Aja Barber talks to Samantha Baines about the post-break-up tragedy which changed her outlook on life forever. Aja opens up to Samantha about the guilt she feels for being un-happy about a break-up in the last few weeks of a loved one's life. Aja promises that she will never allow herself to take life for granted again, giving her the strength to talk about the subjects she feels are important, regardless if it makes others uncomfortable. Aja discusses race, heartache, moving country and sustainability.


Aja also gives us (and Samantha) some vital tips on how to not turn to shopping in times of stress and they talk about her book Consumed.


Trigger warning:

not eating


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Navigating the end of a relationship is often portrayed as purely tragic, but there’s another side to the story-one filled with unexpected laughs, hard-won wisdom, and genuine resilience. That’s the space explored in The Divorce Social, hosted by award-winning author, actor, and broadcaster Samantha Baines. Having been through a divorce herself, she brings a uniquely empathetic and refreshingly light-hearted perspective to a topic that can feel overwhelmingly heavy. This acclaimed podcast, recognized with awards including a bronze at the British Podcast Awards and an International Women’s Podcast Award, sits at the intersection of society, culture, and mental health, treating breakups not as an ending but as a complex human experience worth examining. Each episode feels like a candid conversation with a friend, as Samantha interviews a variety of guests about their own splits. The discussions are penetrative, getting into the real emotional and practical fallout, but they’re also genuinely funny and full of life. You’ll hear stories that cover the full spectrum-from the logistical headaches and emotional turmoil to the surprising moments of liberation and self-discovery. It’s about fitness for your mental health, education on navigating legal and social shifts, and ultimately, the rebuilding of relationships, most importantly the one with yourself. Tuning into this podcast offers a sense of community and a powerful reminder that you’re not alone, all while delivering the kind of honest, comforting, and often hilarious talk that makes the journey a little less daunting.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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