God, Please Change My Spouse! What to Do When Your Marriage Expectations Don’t Match Reality

God, Please Change My Spouse! What to Do When Your Marriage Expectations Don’t Match Reality

Author: Steve and Mary Alessi | Pastors | Christian Parenting and Marriage Mentors March 4, 2026 Duration: 47:58
Are you praying that the person you married becomes more like the person you THOUGHT you married? In this episode, you'll discover why praying "God, please change my wife / husband" may not be the right kind of prayer... and how you can build a thriving marriage by focusing on personal growth, realistic expectations, and true understanding. Marriage can be beautiful, but it comes with some real challenges—especially when the quirks and habits that once seemed cute become real irritant...

For anyone navigating the beautiful, complex, and sometimes messy reality of family life, The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast offers a grounded and relatable perspective. Hosts Steve and Mary Alessi are not just pastors and mentors; they are at the heart of their own multi-generational family, all serving together on the same church staff. This unique position means they understand the intertwined dynamics of faith, personal relationships, and working alongside loved ones firsthand. Their conversations delve into the practical challenges and profound joys of building a marriage that lasts, raising children with intention, and creating a legacy rooted in Biblical wisdom. With over 200 episodes in their library, this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest talk with seasoned guides who have been in the trenches. You’ll hear discussions that reframe everyday family struggles as opportunities for growth and grace, all while emphasizing why strong families matter to everyone. Tune in for authentic stories, applicable advice, and the encouragement needed to cultivate a healthier, happier home.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast
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Duration: 34:14
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