187: Habits That Unsteady Us — What’s Quietly Draining Your Energy and Calm

187: Habits That Unsteady Us — What’s Quietly Draining Your Energy and Calm

Author: Lorrie Mickelson, Habits & Self Care January 17, 2026 Duration: 22:15

Have you ever noticed that it’s not always the big things that throw you off balance, but the small, familiar habits that quietly pull you away from your center?


In this week’s episode of the Habit Thrive Podcast, we're having a gentle, reflective conversation about the habits, patterns, routines, and even conversations that may be subtly unsteadying us — often without even realizing it.


Building on last week’s episode about the habits that steady us, we're exploring the other side of the coin: The everyday habits that feel normal and comfortable, yet leave us feeling tense, depleted, or off-kilter.


This is not about judgment or fixing yourself.


It’s about awareness, curiosity, and choice:


  • Why are unsteadying habits often subtle, familiar, and easy to miss?
  • How is constant news consumption and unbounded screen time keeping our nervous system on high alert?
  • Are you noticing how you feel after scrolling, watching, or listening?
  • How do social conversations rooted in fear, worry, or drama affect your emotional balance?


When you utilize your awareness and decide when to engage, listen, shift the topic, or step back, you take control back from those detrimental habits!


Remember: Having these habits does not make you wrong!


It simply makes you human.


The invitation this week is not to change everything, but to notice:

  • What steadies you
  • What subtly unsteadies you
  • And what small, compassionate shifts might help you feel more grounded


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Habits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & Beyond


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Habits, Mindfulness Routines & Self Care For Women 50 & Beyond


Navigating the years after fifty brings a unique blend of freedom and uncertainty. The Habit Thrive Podcast ~ Self Care Habits, Mindfulness & Wellness Routines for Women 50 & Beyond is a companion for that journey, hosted by Lorrie Mickelson. This isn't about drastic overhauls but the steady, impactful habits that fit into a life already rich with experience. Lorrie focuses on practical, sustainable self-care that acknowledges the physical and emotional shifts of this chapter. You'll hear conversations that feel like a chat with a knowledgeable friend, exploring how small, consistent actions in fitness, mindfulness, and daily routines can lead to feeling stronger, sleeping more soundly, and approaching each day with renewed energy instead of overwhelm. This podcast digs into the real how-to, from establishing grounding morning rituals to winding down effectively at night, all tailored for the realities and opportunities of life after fifty. It’s a resource for building resilience and vitality through manageable steps, making the most of this vibrant and potentially transformative time. Tune in for honest discussions and actionable ideas that help you thrive in your own definition of wellness.
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