215: If the Purpose of Life Is to be happy , Why Aren’t We Happy?

215: If the Purpose of Life Is to be happy , Why Aren’t We Happy?

Author: Lorrie Mickelson, Habits & Self Care August 1, 2026 Duration: 22:22

As we wrap up our July Joy Series, we're exploring one final question:

If the purpose of life is to be happy…why aren't we happier?


After spending the month immersed in the science of happiness and the wisdom of books like The Book of Joy, The How of Happiness, and The Art of Happiness, I've noticed something unexpected—I really am happier. But is it because I've been reading about happiness? Or because I've been putting simple happiness practices into action?


In this episode, we explore why happiness isn't something we wait for or someday arrive at. It's something we intentionally practice through our daily habits, routines, and rituals. From mindfulness and gratitude to movement, meditation, and the Habit Thrive Cup, we'll discover that lasting happiness is found in the ordinary moments we choose to notice.


We'll also reflect on the Dalai Lama's belief that "the purpose of our life is to be happy" and consider a different perspective: perhaps our purpose isn't simply to be happy, but to seek happiness—and to become someone who creates more happiness for ourselves and everyone around us.

As we close this special series, I hope you're reminded that happiness doesn't require a perfect life. It grows one intentional choice at a time.


So, ask yourself: What is one small habit I can practice today that helps me seek—and create—more happiness?


xoxo

Lorrie


In this episode:

The How of Happiness by Sonja Lyubomirsky


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Navigating the years after fifty brings a unique blend of freedom and uncertainty. The Habit Thrive Podcast ~ Self Care Habits, Mindfulness & Wellness Routines for Women 50 & Beyond is a companion for that journey, hosted by Lorrie Mickelson. This isn't about drastic overhauls but the steady, impactful habits that fit into a life already rich with experience. Lorrie focuses on practical, sustainable self-care that acknowledges the physical and emotional shifts of this chapter. You'll hear conversations that feel like a chat with a knowledgeable friend, exploring how small, consistent actions in fitness, mindfulness, and daily routines can lead to feeling stronger, sleeping more soundly, and approaching each day with renewed energy instead of overwhelm. This podcast digs into the real how-to, from establishing grounding morning rituals to winding down effectively at night, all tailored for the realities and opportunities of life after fifty. It’s a resource for building resilience and vitality through manageable steps, making the most of this vibrant and potentially transformative time. Tune in for honest discussions and actionable ideas that help you thrive in your own definition of wellness.
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