#228 How to Cope with Overthinking (Without Fighting Your Thoughts) with Dr. Claire Hayes

#228 How to Cope with Overthinking (Without Fighting Your Thoughts) with Dr. Claire Hayes

Author: Klaudia Mitura May 12, 2026 Duration: 36:03

Life doesn’t always feel calm — and for overthinkers, it can feel like your mind is running a marathon you never signed up for. In this episode, Klaudia sits down with Dr. Claire Hayes, clinical psychologist and author (including How to Cope), to talk honestly about overthinking, emotional resilience, and why “thinking positive” isn’t always the most helpful approach.

This is a conversation about learning to welcome difficult emotions instead of suppressing them, separating thoughts from feelings and actions, and using Claire’s practical ABC coping statement (“I feel… because I think… but I choose…”) to step out of spirals and back into choice.

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Hosted by psychologist Klaudia Mitura, The Happiness Challenge is a personal and practical exploration of well-being, born from a period of disconnection. After the pandemic severed familiar ties to family and routine, Klaudia turned to her scientific background, not just as a professional, but as someone seeking a more joyful path forward. This monthly podcast unfolds as a series of linked conversations, where each episode builds upon the last to form a cohesive guide. You’ll hear Klaudia engage with researchers, thinkers, and practitioners from various fields, translating robust psychological and neurological findings into tangible habits. The discussions move beyond theory, focusing on actionable steps that touch on physical fitness, mental reframing, and daily self-improvement practices. It’s a blend of evidence-based education and relatable storytelling, where the science of happiness is broken down into manageable challenges for everyday life. By weaving her own journey with insights from experts, Klaudia creates a space that feels both informative and deeply human. Tuning into this podcast means joining a gradual, month-by-month process designed to cultivate sustainable joy through tested methods and honest conversation.
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