220. Expectations

220. Expectations

Author: Hadar Shemesh May 24, 2022 Duration: 19:11

Have you ever thought about the expectations you have of yourself when speaking English?

And while there's a common belief that high expectations lead to great results – is that really true?

In this podcast episode, I discuss how your expectations may affect your speaking experience, and may do more harm than good.

More episodes on this topic:

Why do I feel like a fraud every time I speak English? https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/11/

10 Things You Should Stop Doing if you Want to Speak English Fluently https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/05/

Download our 30 Most Powerful English Speaking Affirmations https://hadarshemesh.com/freebie-30-affirmations/

50 Powerful Fluency Tips (in under 5 minutes) +PDF https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/105/

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Hadar Shemesh hosts The InFluency Podcast, drawing from her own journey from an intermediate English speaker to a recognized pronunciation expert and fluency coach. This isn't about abstract theory; it's a practical, empathetic guide for anyone who feels stuck in their language learning. Hadar's conversations and solo episodes delve into the tangible strategies that actually work for acquiring an American accent, building unshakeable confidence, and moving beyond textbook English to authentic, fluid speech. You'll hear a blend of mindset shifts, technical pronunciation breakdowns, and stories from a global community of learners. The focus is always on the human side of fluency-how it connects to identity, courage, and communication. Each episode of this podcast feels like a direct coaching session, offering actionable steps that address the real frustrations and aspirations of students and teachers alike. Hadar's approach demystifies the process, making the path to speaking English with assurance feel not only possible but deeply personal. Tune in for a resource that understands the journey because the host has lived it, creating a space where progress is celebrated over perfection.
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