233. Being present

233. Being present

Author: Hadar Shemesh July 12, 2022 Duration: 22:23

Do you feel present in your day-to-day life? How about in English conversations – are you easily distracted, too focused on how YOU sound or worrying that you won't understand the other person?

As speakers of English as a second language, we are often consumed with the fear of not being able to finish our thought, being misunderstood, or not understanding the other person. These fears have a huge impact on how we show up in conversations, and can cause us to not be fully present in English.

Join me for a conversation about being present in English and why it's important that we become more connected with ourselves and the people we interact with in English.

More episodes about mindset:

Feeling worthy: https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/226/
Expectations https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/220/
Feeling Invisible https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/188/
Challenges https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/29/

Watch the episode on my YouTube channel (with English subtitles):


Hadar Shemesh hosts The InFluency Podcast, drawing from her own journey from an intermediate English speaker to a recognized pronunciation expert and fluency coach. This isn't about abstract theory; it's a practical, empathetic guide for anyone who feels stuck in their language learning. Hadar's conversations and solo episodes delve into the tangible strategies that actually work for acquiring an American accent, building unshakeable confidence, and moving beyond textbook English to authentic, fluid speech. You'll hear a blend of mindset shifts, technical pronunciation breakdowns, and stories from a global community of learners. The focus is always on the human side of fluency-how it connects to identity, courage, and communication. Each episode of this podcast feels like a direct coaching session, offering actionable steps that address the real frustrations and aspirations of students and teachers alike. Hadar's approach demystifies the process, making the path to speaking English with assurance feel not only possible but deeply personal. Tune in for a resource that understands the journey because the host has lived it, creating a space where progress is celebrated over perfection.
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