Are We Bad Feminists? - Sand in My Clam Series

Are We Bad Feminists? - Sand in My Clam Series

Author: freyagraf April 24, 2023 Duration: 46:51

This week in The Labia Lounge me and two of my legendary pals chat about a couple of topics that really get our clams sandy! The main focus of this eppy is the way women are made to feel like bad feminists if we so much as shave our armpits or care about how we look or how others perceive us. We discuss the double whammy of guilt and feminist-shame that we feel as a result of, 1. caring about such 'vain' and 'vacuous' 'feminine' things in the first place, as well as, 2. the added layer of self-judgement that we direct at ourselves for being bad feminists for even worrying about such things.

We also chat about how it's okay to ask your partner to take a nice photo of you if you're feeling fiiiiine (but wouldn't it be nice if they just thought to do it without you having to request it), how we feel about vanity vs. self love, and how it's such a bummer when you feel like a tosser who's completely up themselves if you ask someone else to take a picture of you. Among other juicy thangs.

So get into it, gang!


Thanks to Holly and Hannah for joining me on this one - seriously some of the most articulate and badass guests I've had!


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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