Dating With A Disability with Emily Goodson

Dating With A Disability with Emily Goodson

Author: freyagraf December 15, 2025 Duration: 1:36:12

This week in The Labia Lounge, I welcome Emily Goodson—author, speaker, and advocate—to chat about her new book, "Dating Disability," and her powerful journey from 15-year-old confusion and low self worth to confidence, acceptance, and self-love.

Emily shares the real talk on friend-zoning, dating apps, beauty standards, and breaking free from myths that paint disabled people as asexual or unworthy. She dives into how media portrayal (or lack thereof) impacts self-worth, why she finally called in professional help, and what it’s actually like navigating love, lust, and connection as a woman living with partial paralysis.

Get ready for intimate anecdotes, TMI sex-ed throwbacks, challenging assumptions, and a heap of raw, empowering wisdom on claiming space—in bed and in life.

Tune in for a beautiful blend of vulnerability, advocacy, and LOLs that’ll inspire you, no matter your own dating journey.


Tune in to discover why communication, self-awareness, and choosing yourself are the ultimate aphrodisiacs.

This eppy is for anyone curious about sexuality, disability, dating apps, or just keen to learn how to be a better human (and lover).

Grab Emily’s book, join the convo, and follow her work here: www.ecgoodson.com

https://a.co/d/7dmD4xJ

https://ecgoodson.substack.com/


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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