Healthy Boundaries and How to Stop Ghosting with Justine Ang Fonte

Healthy Boundaries and How to Stop Ghosting with Justine Ang Fonte

Author: freyagraf July 8, 2024 Duration: 1:22:28

This week in The Labia Lounge I had a faaaabulous and enlightening chat with Justine Ange Fonte, the writer and "thanks-but-no-thanks"-text-artist behind the community service account _good.byes_ where Justine writes the difficult texts you're stuck on and helps you navigate the sort of crunchy conversations that we all want to avoid to escape conflict or friction.


Justine and I yarn about how to have healthy and kind boundaries, how to construct the perfect goodbye text when you're just not feeling it after a date, and how and why it's important to communicate your needs, your "no"s, and your boundaries to avoid people pleasing, self betrayal, bypassing, and resentment, whether that's with a boss, family member, friend or particularly persistent guy you met on a dating app!


We chat about why pleasure education is essential in sex education, and why both are crucial to having healthy boundaries.


Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!


Check out Justine's work here: justinefonte.com


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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