Shadow Work and Relationships with Rainier Wylde

Shadow Work and Relationships with Rainier Wylde

Author: freyagraf May 15, 2023 Duration: 1:24:29

This week in The Labia Lounge I chat with someone I really respect and who's perspectives and experience I value highly. Rainier Wylde is a deep thinker, a poetic wordsmith, and a kind heart, and I was lucky enough to get him on to chat about shadow work and authentic relating.

We talk about what shadow work actually is, how we can uncover and recognise our shadow, and how we can start to integrate these parts of ourselves. We discuss why this work is so important and how it relates to the shit that comes up when we're in relationship. We go into a bunch of juicy conversations about long-term relating, "doing the work" on ourselves and in relationship, how to handle it when our shadows, triggers and trauma come up in relationships and when to double down on the work versus when to throw in the towel when a relationship is too much work. Rainier talks us through the three essential components a relationship needs to be healthy and successful, and we touch upon some really fascinating concepts that aren't taught or talked about enough.


This is a fab episode that I know you'll enjoy, and I highly recommend checking out Rainier's work and getting around his wonderful content - though I know once you listen to this one you'll need no prompting from me to seek out more of his wisdom!


Check out his work here: https://rainierwylde.substack.com/ , https://www.rainierwylde.com/


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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