Breastfeeding Struggles + 3rd Degree Tear | Katie’s Birth Stories

Breastfeeding Struggles + 3rd Degree Tear | Katie’s Birth Stories

Author: Emily Lau October 7, 2025 Duration: 54:28

This week I’m joined by my friend Katie, who thought she wanted a large family until she had a bumpy start to motherhood with her first. Her experiences include a long, difficult labor that resulted in a 3rd degree tear that took almost a year to recover from, and a baby who struggled to breastfeed and therefore struggled to sleep. Luckily, her second brought a better delivery and postpartum experience because of what she learned from her first. 

Through all of this, Katie learned how to trust her own instincts and let go of advice that simply wasn’t helpful. If you’re trying to find your voice and learn to laugh at your mistakes, Katie’s episode is the one for you! 


Full episode transcript available at thelaborline.com/episodes


Chapters:

00:00 - Meet Katie 

07:29 - 1st Pregnancy: 6 Months of Trying + Weight Gain Comments 

13:57 - 1st Labor: Broken Water, Lack of Sleep, & Almost 3 Hours of Pushing

18:49 - 1st Postpartum: 3rd Degree Tear, Breastfeeding Struggles, & Co-Sleeping 

31:56 - 2nd Pregnancy: Positive Pregnancy + Mild Gender Disappointment 

38:37 - 2nd Labor: Fainting Husband, Quick Labor, Out in 3 Pushes 

41:58 - 2nd Postpartum: Learning from Last Time + Formula Supplementation 

48:40 - To My Pre-Mom Self…




Hosted by Emily Lau, The Labor Line offers a space where the profound, messy, and surprisingly funny realities of bringing a child into the world are shared without polish. Emily, who has long been fascinated by birth stories, began this podcast as an expectant mother seeking genuine conversations beyond the textbooks. Each episode is built from candid talks with her community of mom friends, where they unpack everything from the first signs of labor to the unpredictable weeks that follow. You’ll hear the full spectrum of experiences-the anxiety of unexpected complications, the raw emotion of feeding challenges, the triumph of a swift delivery, and those bizarre, laugh-out-loud moments that happen only in a hospital room. This isn't a how-to guide but a collection of human voices reminding you that you're not alone on this journey. By focusing on personal narratives, the podcast connects listeners to the cultural and relational shifts that define parenthood, all through the lens of honest storytelling. Tune in for weekly episodes that normalize the complexities of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum life, offering both solidarity and a much-needed dose of humor.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 32

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