181: People Pleasing, Inner Child Healing & Self Worth w/ Jasmine Lipska

181: People Pleasing, Inner Child Healing & Self Worth w/ Jasmine Lipska

Author: Aileen Xu May 1, 2022 Duration: 51:24
Have you ever been told you’re “too much”? Jasmine Lipska is back to talk about healing your inner child, breaking free from external validation, and recovering from being a lifelong people-pleaser.

Jasmine is now an intimacy and relationship coach guiding women to come back to their most authentic selves. She used to be a YouTuber, and we explore how quitting YouTube was part of her self worth transformation to stop being a “good girl”.

TIMESTAMPS:

  • 0:55 — Jasmine’s journey, from eating disorder recovery to becoming an intimacy coach
  • 8:43 — Tips for healing your sense of self worth and internal validation
  • 9:49 — Inner child healing: Re-learning how to enjoy life and truly accept yourself
  • 15:18 — Manifesting your ideal partner (Jasmine met and married her husband in one year!)
  • 20:51 — How to stop being a people-pleaser & make decisions for yourself
  • 24:52 — Dissecting your triggers & fear of judgment from others
  • 35:32 — How ‘healed’ should you be before going into a relationship?
  • 43:33 — Jasmine’s top tips on manifesting everything you want in life

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Aileen Xu hosts The Lavendaire Lifestyle, a space designed for those looking to weave more intention into the fabric of their daily lives. This podcast explores the interconnected nature of personal growth, where improving your physical fitness directly influences your mental clarity, and spiritual curiosity enriches your approach to education and self-improvement. Episodes delve into practical routines for health alongside deeper conversations about purpose and inner peace, drawing from a variety of philosophies and traditions without being anchored to any single path. You’ll hear honest reflections on building a life that feels both productive and meaningful, where caring for your mind and body is part of a holistic journey. The Lavendaire Lifestyle serves as a companion for redefining success on your own terms, offering thoughtful perspectives that encourage action beyond just passive listening. It’s for anyone who believes that a well-lived life incorporates care for every aspect of the self, fostering a sense of balance and authentic growth through its diverse topics.
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