222: Navigating Impostor Syndrome and Achieving Your Dream Life with Samantha van der Sluis

222: Navigating Impostor Syndrome and Achieving Your Dream Life with Samantha van der Sluis

Author: Aileen Xu March 12, 2023 Duration: 50:30
When you're going after a big dream, challenges are inevitable. And one of these challenges is that you will have to deal with impostor syndrome. In today's episode highlighting our community, Aileen talks to lavi love Samantha van der Sluis about her experience working in the video game industry, dealing with impostor syndrome, and finding success in creating her dream life.

Samantha is a New Zealand-born Australian music composer for various media including video games, films, TV, podcasts, and animation. She has worked in the music department for films including Star Wars IX, Toy Story 4, and Avengers: Endgame. Her love of games led her down the path to becoming a lead composer in the gaming industry.

TIMESTAMPS
  • 5:14 - Falling out of love with your passion
  • 6:01 - The path to the gaming industry
  • 7:23 - Working in the game industry vs. the film industry
  • 17:07 - Lavendaire's impact on Samantha's life
  • 19:00 - Dealing with impostor's syndrome
  • 21:11 - Finding success in a male-dominated industry as a woman
  • 27:55 - Tips for freelancers to get more projects
  • 29:49 - Achieving a dream
  • 30:27 - Samantha's creative process
  • 35:21 - Learning breeds confidence
  • 39:55 - Dealing with burnout and finding motivation
  • 43:57 - Definition of Samantha’s dream life
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The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 222

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Aileen Xu hosts The Lavendaire Lifestyle, a space designed for those looking to weave more intention into the fabric of their daily lives. This podcast explores the interconnected nature of personal growth, where improving your physical fitness directly influences your mental clarity, and spiritual curiosity enriches your approach to education and self-improvement. Episodes delve into practical routines for health alongside deeper conversations about purpose and inner peace, drawing from a variety of philosophies and traditions without being anchored to any single path. You’ll hear honest reflections on building a life that feels both productive and meaningful, where caring for your mind and body is part of a holistic journey. The Lavendaire Lifestyle serves as a companion for redefining success on your own terms, offering thoughtful perspectives that encourage action beyond just passive listening. It’s for anyone who believes that a well-lived life incorporates care for every aspect of the self, fostering a sense of balance and authentic growth through its diverse topics.
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