Mishlei 13:15 - Don't Force

Mishlei 13:15 - Don't Force

Author: Rabbi Matt Schneeweiss March 5, 2024 Duration: 1:22:32

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Mishlei 13:15 - Don't Force

שֵׂכֶל טוֹב יִתֶּן חֵן וְדֶרֶךְ בֹּגְדִים אֵיתָן:

Length: 1 hour 22 minutes
Synopsis: Tonight (3/4/24), in our Monday Night Mishlei shiur, I was nervous about our prospects. The first half of the pasuk looked easy, but the second half mentioned the elusive Mishleic archetype of the bogeid - a definition that's given us trouble in the past. Thankfully, we came up with four nice approaches on our own, then learned three additional ideas from Metudas David and Rabbeinu Yonah. To my mind, the fact that these ideas share a common denominator is a good sign.
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מקורות:
משלי יג:טו
מצודת דוד
רבינו יונה
מאירי
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Duration: 45:36
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Duration: 1:36:18
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Duration: 40:55
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!קֹנֶה לֵּב אֹהֵב נַפְשׁוֹ שֹׁמֵר תְּבוּנָה לִמְצֹא טוֹב:This morning (1/4/20 at YBT) we learned a very generic sounding pasuk about the pursuit of knowledge. The…
Mishlei 19:7 - How to Lose Friends and (Not) Influence People [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:57
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!כָּל אֲחֵי רָשׁ שְׂנֵאֻהוּ אַף כִּי מְרֵעֵהוּ רָחֲקוּ מִמֶּנּוּ, מְרַדֵּף אֲמָרִים [לוֹ] (לא) הֵמָּה:This morning (12/31/20 at YBT) we learned yet another pasuk a…
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Duration: 33:47
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!רַבִּים יְחַלּוּ פְנֵי נָדִיב וְכׇל הָרֵעַ לְאִישׁ מַתָּן:This morning (12/30/20 at YBT) we continued our analysis of yesterday's pasuk, seeking more guidance fro…
Mishlei 19:6 - Selective vs. Indiscriminate Generosity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:04
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!רַבִּים יְחַלּוּ פְנֵי נָדִיב וְכׇל הָרֵעַ לְאִישׁ מַתָּן:This morning (12/29/20 at YBT) we tackled what appeared to be a "cliche" Mishlei pasuk about generosity…
Mishlei 10:10 - Two Pitfalls in Communication [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:35:03
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!קֹרֵץ עַיִן יִתֵּן עַצָּבֶת וֶאֱוִיל שְׂפָתַיִם יִלָּבֵט:In our Monday Night Mishlei shiur (12/28/20 with Lomdeha, hosted by YBT) we found ourselves confronted wi…
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Duration: 43:29
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!עֵד שְׁקָרִים לֹא יִנָּקֶה וְיָפִיחַ כְּזָבִים לֹא יִמָּלֵט:This morning (12/28/20 at YBT) we learned an interesting pasuk. It's interesting because it's difficul…
Mishlei 19:4 - Wealth, Poverty, and Friendship (Part 2) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:41
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!הוֹן יֹסִיף רֵעִים רַבִּים וְדָל מֵרֵעֵהוּ יִפָּרֵד:This morning (12/24/20 at YBT) we continued our analysis of the pasuk we began yesterday. We found support for…
Mishlei 19:4 - Wealth, Poverty, and Friendship (Part 1) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:44
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!הוֹן יֹסִיף רֵעִים רַבִּים וְדָל מֵרֵעֵהוּ יִפָּרֵד:This morning (12/23/20 at YBT) we began analyzing the next pasuk in our perek, raising the few questions on th…