Mishlei 17:19 - Offense-Lovers, Door-Raisers, and Karens

Mishlei 17:19 - Offense-Lovers, Door-Raisers, and Karens

Author: Rabbi Matt Schneeweiss March 10, 2026 Duration: 1:58:51

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Mishlei 17:19 - Offense-Lovers, Door-Raisers, and Karens

אֹהֵב פֶּשַׁע אֹהֵב מַצָּה מַגְבִּיהַּ פִּתְחוֹ מְבַקֶּשׁ שָׁבֶר:

Length: 1 hour 58 minutes
Synopsis: This evening (3/9/26), in our Monday Night Mishlei shiur, we took up an unusual pasuk that I had never learned before. Despite the weirdness of the pasuk's formlation, we came up with a nice variety of original interpretations, and then learned two completely different explanations from the meforshim - including the first ever "Mishlei: on Karens" from Ralbag! Yet another example of how Shlomo ha'Melech was familiar with OUR world, despite living thousands of years in the past. "That which was is that which will be, and that which was done is that which will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun" (Koheles 1:9).
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מקורות:
משלי יז:יט
משלי טז:יח; כו:ד-ה,יב
מצודת ציון/דוד
הואיל משה
ר' יוסף אבן כספי פירוש ב
רד"ק - ספר המצוות
רלב"ג
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Duration: 34:26
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Duration: 32:15
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!שְׁמַע עֵצָה וְקַבֵּל מוּסָר לְמַעַן תֶּחְכַּם בְּאַחֲרִיתֶךָ:This morning (3/9/21 at YBT) we learned the meforshim on yesterday's pasuk, after reviewing and deve…
Mishlei 10:18 - How NOT to Deal with Hatred [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:22:41
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!מְכַסֶּה שִׂנְאָה שִׂפְתֵי שָׁקֶר וּמוֹצִא דִבָּה הוּא כְסִיל:In our Monday Night Mishlei shiur (3/8/21 with Lomdeha, hosted by YBT) we learned a pasuk which lean…
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Duration: 43:47
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text!שְׁמַע עֵצָה וְקַבֵּל מוּסָר לְמַעַן תֶּחְכַּם בְּאַחֲרִיתֶךָ:This morning (3/8/21 at YBT) we learned a pasuk that was complex in its simplicity: easy to translat…
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Duration: 43:11
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text![גְּדָל] (גרל) חֵמָה נֹשֵׂא עֹנֶשׁ כִּי אִם תַּצִּיל וְעוֹד תּוֹסִף:This morning (3/4/21 at YBT) we continued our analysis of yesterday's pasuk - this time, with…
Mishlei 19:19 - The Inescapable Punishment of Great Wrath (Part 1) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:51
Have any questions, insights, or feedback? Send me a text![גְּדָל] (גרל) חֵמָה נֹשֵׂא עֹנֶשׁ כִּי אִם תַּצִּיל וְעוֹד תּוֹסִף:This morning (3/3/21 at YBT) we began a pasuk which was REALLY challenging to translate! We be…
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Duration: 35:16
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Duration: 1:23:10
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