Mishlei 18:17 - How Preemptively Making Your Case Can Backfire (Part 1)

Mishlei 18:17 - How Preemptively Making Your Case Can Backfire (Part 1)

Author: Rabbi Matt Schneeweiss November 16, 2020 Duration: 42:52

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צַדִּיק הָרִאשׁוֹן בְּרִיבוֹ [וּבָא] (יבא) רֵעֵהוּ וַחֲקָרוֹ

In our morning Mishlei shiur (11/16/20 at YBT) we began learning Mishlei 18:17 which seems to be about what in modern terms would be called "anchoring bias." We attempted to learn the pasuk on our own, then turned to Metzudas David and Ralbag. Tomorrow we'll refine our understanding and learn Rabbeinu Yonah's approach.
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מקורות:
משלי יח:יז
סעדיה גאון - משלי יח:יז
תרגום כתובים - משלי יח:יז
מצודת דוד - משלי יח:יז
רלב"ג - משלי יח:יז
רמב"ם: משנה תורה, ספר שופטים, הלכות סנהדרין והעונשין המסורין להם כא:ז
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