Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 1)

Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 1)

Author: Rabbi Matt Schneeweiss December 3, 2025 Duration: 44:31

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Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 1)

(ט) רִיבְךָ רִיב אֶת רֵעֶךָ וְסוֹד אַחֵר אַל תְּגָל. (י) פֶּן יְחַסֶּדְךָ שֹׁמֵעַ וְדִבָּתְךָ לֹא תָשׁוּב:

Length: 46 minutes
Synopsis: This morning (12/3/25), in our Morning Mishlei shiur, we learned the sequel to the previous pasuk. First, Mishlei told us not to be quick to get into a fight. Now, Mishlei is telling us what not to do once we're in a fight. We came up with several of our own interpretations today, then learned Metzudas David's. Tomorrow we'll see what the other meforshim have to say (בג"ה).
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מקורות:
משלי כה:ט-י
מצודת ציון/דוד
תרגום רס"ג - הערות ר' קאפח 
נוה שלום
Neima Novetsky, Yonah 2:11
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Duration: 1:36:51
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