Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 2)

Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 2)

Author: Rabbi Matt Schneeweiss December 4, 2025 Duration: 30:40

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Mishlei 25:9-10 - Why You Shouldn't Fight Dirty (Part 2)

(ט) רִיבְךָ רִיב אֶת רֵעֶךָ וְסוֹד אַחֵר אַל תְּגָל. (י) פֶּן יְחַסֶּדְךָ שֹׁמֵעַ וְדִבָּתְךָ לֹא תָשׁוּב:

Length: 30 minutes
Synopsis: This morning (12/4/25), in our shorter-than-usual Morning Mishlei shiur, we continued reviewing the approaches from yesterday, drawing additional support and nuance from the Rishonim. The only truly new approach we tackled was Saadia Gaon, who begins with a highly structured reading of the pasuk in the nigleh, then turns to the nistar. Since I had not prepared this ahead of time, I may have gotten some points wrong. Still, his approach is intriguing, and there is value in what we covered, even if my presentation was imperfect.
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מקורות:
משלי כה:ט-י
אבן כספי פירוש א' וב'
רש"י
עמנואל הרומי
פירוש רס"ג
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