301: Stepmom Didn't Want Kids - Audio

301: Stepmom Didn't Want Kids - Audio

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims March 7, 2025 Duration: 51:02

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes Mae, a stepmom navigating the challenging dynamics of her blended family. Mae lives with her partner, their two-year-old child, and her partner's kids—a 13-year-old girl and a 10-year-old boy. Mae shares the trials she's faced stepping into a maternal role, dealing with stepchildren full-time due to their mother's sporadic involvement. Tune in as she candidly discusses the struggle of balancing her partner's expectations, managing her stepson's anger issues, and finding harmony through the Nacho Kids method. Whether you're a new stepmom or have been in the role for years, Mae's story offers relatable insights and genuine conversation about creating a cohesive family. Join us as we dive into these real-life stories, real people, and real help in blending families!

 

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Behavioral Challenges with Stepson

  • Challenges of Disengagement

  • Managing Emotions and Responsibilities

  • Honesty and Family Conversations

  • Future Concerns and Stepson's Behavior

Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

The High-Conflict Ex Situation

"My stepkids' mom made our lives miserable. It felt like everything I did was wrong, and my husband was stuck in the middle. After joining Nacho Kids Academy, I stopped trying to compete with their mom and started focusing on my own peace. The drama doesn't affect me like it used to, and my husband and I are finally on the same page. This program saved my sanity!" ~ Kara L., KY, USA

 


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Podcast Episodes
350: Your Partner Can Be The Problem [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:59
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349: Valentine's Day Expectations [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 27:41
Get ready for laughter, realness, and actionable advice as Lori and David tackle Valentine's Day expectations and the tricky emotions that come with stepfamily living. In this episode, Lori and David dive into the emotio…
348: Successful Co-parenting [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:33
In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Jon Bassford, author of The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You, to talk about what healthy co-parenting really looks like, an…
347: Adult Stepkid Moves Back In [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:46
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346: They Can Put Their Big Person Panties On [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:13
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345: Some Blends Are Toxic [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:55
In this lively episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive straight into a wild story involving clogged toilets, dangerous chemical reactions, and a visit from the local fire department. Lori recounts he…
344: Stepfamily New Year's Expectations [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 27:35
Kick off 2026 with laughter and real talk! In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David explore the powerful topic of expectations—why they trip us up, how to let go of what others "should" do, and how to bu…
343: Stepfamilies Can Change In The Blink Of An Eye [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:54
Looking for real talk on blended family challenges, New Year's resolutions, and actionable strategies for stepfamilies? In this episode, hosts David and Lori dive deep into stepfamily dynamics and why things can change i…
342: That's Not Nachoing! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:16
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts David and Lori dive into a deeply relatable and emotional topic: financial stress and holiday challenges in blended families. Lori reads a heart-wrenching post from their…
341: Sick Stepkids [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:30
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and guest David tackle one of the trickiest challenges in blended family life: what happens when the stepkids get sick? This episode dives deep into how co-parents an…