305: The Good Divorce Coach ~ Karen McNenny

305: The Good Divorce Coach ~ Karen McNenny

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims April 4, 2025 Duration: 1:08:07

Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, hosts Lori and David welcome the insightful Karen McNenny, also known as the Good Divorce Coach. Karen joins us to challenge the traditional narrative of divorce as a conflict-ridden process. She introduces the concept of a 'good divorce,' presenting it as a tool, rather than a weapon, to transform family dynamics positively. Karen shares her personal journey and the genesis of her coaching business, emphasizing the importance of reshaping the divorce experience to focus on protecting future relationships, especially for those who co-parent. Tune in as we explore how thoughtful, intentional divorce processes can lead to a more harmonious family structure, even across two homes. Get ready to shift your perspective on divorce and discover how this transformation can ease not only the divorce process but also foster a healthier blended family dynamic. Enjoy the show!

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Concept of a Good Divorce
  • Parenting and Communication Post-Divorce
  • Introduction of New Partners
  • Maintaining Healthy Boundaries

Nacho Kids Academy Success Stories:

I Thought Divorce Was the Only Option

"I thought my marriage was doomed. My wife and I couldn't agree on anything when it came to her kids. Every argument ended with one of us saying, 'Maybe this just isn't going to work.' Then we found Nacho Kids. I realized that my role wasn't to discipline or fix anything - it was to support my wife as she parents her kids. The shift in our home was almost instant. The tension disappeared. The kids were happier, my wife wasn't stuck in the middle, and I could actually enjoy being in my own home again. If we hadn't found Nacho Kids, we wouldn't be together today. It's that simple." - Mike R., Virginia, USA


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
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