318: Therapists Don't Know Everything

318: Therapists Don't Know Everything

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims July 4, 2025 Duration: 27:40

In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive into the topic of therapists and their understanding of/lack of understanding of Nacho Parenting. After a member of their Facebook group shares a story about being "fired" by a therapist for following the Nacho Kids method, Lori and David break down the misconceptions therapists may have about stepfamilies and the Nacho approach. They share real-life comments, discuss the importance of finding a therapist who truly understands blended family dynamics, and clarify that nachoing isn't just about disengagement or ignoring issues—it's about mental health, self-care, and improving relationships for everyone in the family. If you've ever felt misunderstood by a professional or want to know how to vet the right support for your stepfamily, this episode is for you!

In this episode, we discuss:

  • Misunderstandings of Nacho Parenting
  • Nacho Parenting and Mental Health
  • Triggers, Emotions, and Family Dynamics
  • The Role of Therapists and Vetting Therapists
  • When Therapists Get It Wrong

Nacho Kids Success Story:

"I thought Nachoing meant not caring. Now I see it's the most loving thing I could've done—for all of us." - T.R. Alberta, Canada

Timestamps

00:00 Therapists: Strengths, Weaknesses, Experience

04:01 Therapists' Dilemma with "Nacho" Method

06:31 "Misguided Research Practices"

11:48 Negative Self-Talk Unhealthy Comparison

15:24 Understanding Effective Family Roles

17:22 "Realizing My Impact on Others"

22:07 Vetting Your Therapist

23:47 Therapist Dispute Over Parenting Concerns

26:35 "Find Your Family Support Method"

Resources

 


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Podcast Episodes
309: Blending With Autism [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:58
On today's episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with "Bookworm Stepmom," for a heartfelt and engaging conversation about navigating the highs and lows of blended family life. Stepmom opens up about her journ…
308: Graduations And Stepfamilies [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:13
Welcome back to the Nacho Kids Podcast! In this heartfelt and relatable episode, hosts David and Lori dive into the annual struggle of graduation ticket allocations. With only a handful of coveted seats for high school a…
307: Lisa Wilson ~ A History of Stepfamilies in Early America [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:26
In this enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, we explore the fascinating world of stepfamilies in American history with our special guest, Lisa Wilson, the esteemed author of "A History of Stepfamilies in Early…
306: Easter In Stepfamilies [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:18
Welcome to this episode of the NK Podcast, where hosts Lori and David dive into the intricacies of celebrating Easter within stepfamilies. The holiday season can be a delightful time, but it also brings unique challenges…
305: The Good Divorce Coach ~ Karen McNenny [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:07
Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! In today's episode, hosts Lori and David welcome the insightful Karen McNenny, also known as the Good Divorce Coach. Karen joins us to challenge the trad…
304: Nacho Parenting: It's Not About Ignoring Step Kids [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:27
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the often misunderstood concept of "nacho parenting." They start by addressing a common question: Does nachoing mean ignoring your stepkids? Lori…
303: Affairs Create Stepfamilies [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:25:54
Hey, Nacho Parents! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind story of a step couple who faced some major challenges blending their families. They've got a history that goes way back, but things got complicated when th…
302: Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:14
Welcome back to the Nacho Kids podcast! In this episode, titled "Mother's Day Doesn't Have To Suck For Stepmoms/Stepfamilies," hosts David and Lori dive into the complex dynamics of navigating Mother's Day as a stepparen…
301: Stepmom Didn't Want Kids - Audio [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:02
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori Sims welcomes Mae, a stepmom navigating the challenging dynamics of her blended family. Mae lives with her partner, their two-year-old child, and her partner's kids—a 13-ye…
300: 300 Podcasts Later: Our Blended Family Journey [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:23
In this milestone episode of the NK Podcast, we're celebrating our 300th episode! Join hosts Lori and David as they reflect on five and a half years of podcasting, sharing their journey and the valuable lessons they've l…