332: It's Not Always Intentional

332: It's Not Always Intentional

Author: Lori Sims & David Sims October 10, 2025 Duration: 37:59

Stepfamilies: Why do we feel so differently about stepkids versus our own?

In this episode of the  Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David get real about the honest, sometimes awkward truths of parenting in blended families.

Tune in for relatable stories and candid conversations about how Lori and David each navigated the differences in parenting their biological kids and stepkids: from fixing breakfast, handling car insurance stress, and reacting to cereal bowls left on the counter. You'll hear them wrestle with those moments when their feelings and priorities aren't the same for "yours" and "mine," and why that's natural, not shameful. The hosts share personal experiences with their grandkids and step-grandkids, discussing the guilt and expectations that come with loving stepchildren, and reflect on how relationships evolve as the kids grow up.

Listeners will learn:

  • Why step and bio parents often react differently—and why that's normal

  • How to approach car insurance, chores, and family events without losing your mind

  • Tips for discussing expectations around finances, discipline, and love in a blended family

  • The impact of child support, and how family structure changes from one generation to the next

Nacho Kids Testimonial:

"Nachoing gave me peace without guilt. It literally saved my marriage." T.M., Dallas, TX, USA


Navigating the complexities of a stepfamily can feel like an isolating journey, but it doesn’t have to be. The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver offers a genuine conversation for anyone in the thick of it, hosted by Lori and David Sims. As founders of Nacho Kids and experienced blended family coaches themselves, they bring both personal insight and professional guidance to each episode. This isn’t about abstract theory; it’s real talk about the daily struggles, from co-parenting tensions and sibling dynamics to maintaining your own relationship sanity. You’ll hear from the hosts and their guests as they share candid stories of both setbacks and hard-won successes, creating a sense of community. At the heart of this podcast is the practical, life-changing framework of the Nacho Kids Method, which provides tangible strategies for saving relationships and building a peaceful home. Tune in for honest discussions that replace judgment with support, offering the tools and reassurance needed to thrive in your blended family life. Each conversation is designed to make you feel understood and equipped, turning overwhelming challenges into manageable steps forward.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Podcast Episodes
370: Leaving the Stepkids Out [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:53
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368: Surviving Summer In The Blend [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:39
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David broadcast live from the beach, sharing personal stories and hard-learned lessons about stepfamily vacations. They discuss the logistical and emotional challenges…
367: Nacho Parenting Isn't That! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:14
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366: Loss, Reconciliation, and Growth in the blend [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:14:51
In this heartfelt episode, Lori talks with California Stepmom, who shares her decade-long journey as a stepmom in a blend with no biological or "ours" kids of her own, but with plenty of lessons learned and emotional ups…
365: The Second Time Around [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:20:52
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363: How Did We Get Here? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:22
** Disclaimer: This episode includes discussion of addiction, overdosing, and alleged inappropriate touching between a stepparent and stepchild ** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with longtime f…
362: Comparison Will Make You Miserable [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:28
Comparisons are the Thief of Joy—But What About in Blended Families? In episode NKP362 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive deep into the pitfalls of comparison, especially when it comes to blended families, ki…
361: Keep The Target Off Your Back [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:42
In this episode, Lori and David dig into real-life stepfamily scenarios from handling dinnertime food drama with stepkids, to discovering vapes hidden in a teenager's room. They discuss the importance of keeping the "tar…